My BF and I have played around with tying each other up before, but this time I would like to make it last a little longer and really tease him before just giving in and letting him finish. I'd also like to try a blindfold - something we've never done before, which I think gives me more leadway to introduce things into the bedroom since he won't be able to see what I'm doing.
Anyway, I guess I am looking for some suggestions or techniques for what I should do once I get him tied up and blindfolded. As a man what do you like done to you and what really teases you. All of your ideas are appreciated, I want to make this night as fun for both of us as possible!
Well me and my Fiancee went shopping and stopped off at tie rack (they got lovely scarves with various textures etc (a nice silky thick one for blindfolding)
We were staying at a hotel that night so first we took a shower together and dried each other off. Then she asked me to sit down (laying on the bed works well too) She took a couple of ties (even use dressing gown cords) and tied my hands behind my back so I was left there unable to move. (not that I wanted to) then she slowly lowered the scarf over my eyes and tied it firmly but gently. Then she proceded to use various things to tease and torment me including various textures of scarves - hot and cold objects (try whipped cream too - we haven't yet but we plan to) She kept gently "accidentaly" brushing things and her hands/lips etc over my rock hard erection (and it's mindblowing when you don't know where she will touch next) Then she went down on me before she needed me inside her (she's quite impatient :p ) and then she released me and we had mindblowing sex on the chair!
When I tie and blindfold her I keep her there for ages, I'm always thinking of new things to do to her. Including putting the plastic cover on my electric razor and wrapping it inside a silk handkerchief (for hygene) and teasing her all over with it. I'm toying with using the handle of the Gillete Mk3 power (which has a little vibrator unit inside the handle (the blade is detatchable ;) ) I also plan to use food next time. Whipped cream and strawberries etc. Last time I actually entered her and made love while she was still tied and blindfolded (driving her mad with frustration!)
There are so many ways to have safe sexy fun with this!
If you got any questions then drop me a line - I like helping because I remember wishing someone would when I was new. Any medical questions though I advise Brandye or DancingDoc.
RS
Katiebug, something I did very early in our relationship (not sure if it would work woman on guy though) and it must be said that it played into a fantasy of my then fiance.
I waited for her to come home one day, as she entered the premises i slipped a large scarf over her eyes from behind without her seeing who it was (i suspect she new it was me after a little while because the struggles where not to frantic) I wrapped the scarf around her head and used the ends to tie her hands behind her back as I manouvered her into the closest room. There I re-tied her hands and pushed her back onto the bed. Lifted her skirt and got to work fairly roughly fondling and on to penetration. We then showered and swopped positions (me bindfolded and tied up) and had an awesome night, albeit a little less rough then when I was "in control".
We have over the years spent many a night with one of us tied down and in many different positions (chair, bed, spread eagle, hands to knees doggie position and standing). Your limits are your imagination and mutual trust!
Enjoy the experimenting!