I've been with my girlfriend for a while now....and i recently started doing oral on her and more fingering. The thing that i just cant find is her clitoris. I know where it is, because on a past girlfriend, i've found it before. But on her, I just cant seem to find it. We both talked about it, and she doesn't really know either. She knows what a clitoris is, but I guess she just doesn't know where its at. I've tried looking for it, but can't find it. So my conclusion is: she just doesn't have one. Is it possible for women/girls to not have a clitoris?
thanks...and if this has been talked about before, sorry I haven't seen the thread. I'm new to these forums
I have never heard of not having one although it may be possible. In some women it is severely small and hidden causing major sexual issues. It was able to be located on a VERY rare occasion.
Probably one of the Doc's here can provide more info about the true absence of one.
**Relative side note**
Just saw this and wanted to take a second to inform any one who was not aware that some cultures have and still to this day practice a ceremony in which they remove a womans clitoris completely based on religious beliefs.
wikipedia article
Obviously this is unlikely to have anything to do with your gf..... but i guess i find it a good enough reason to inform people that womens civil rights is still a major issue world wide!
articles like this should make us all a bit more proud of our own countries womens civil rights progress that has been made (note the word progress, implying we still have ground to cover)
Try here
Maybe this will help?
Nice job, madeye, this IS something to be remembered.
It is relatively certain that your g/f does have a clitoris. The fact that she does not know is indicative of a low level of sexual knowledge and awareness.
There are women whose clitoris' are sometimes difficult to locate under normal "love making" circumstances. It is past time for her to have a gyn exam and I would recommend that. If there any anomalies, they would be discovered and correction could be planned.
In some women the hood is thicker or longer than in others. This is analogous to the thick hymen sometimes mentioned here and would tend to hide the clitoris from normal discovery. This is very correctable and should be at a younger age rather than later.
In the latter stages of sexual arousal, the clitoris actually retracts into the woman's body to protect itself. It is still erect but as it becomes very stimulated the body has a natural reaction to protect it. I doubt this is the situation you are encountering because if your g/f is unaware of having a clitoris, it certainly has not become stimulated.
The most likely is that she does have a smaller clitoris, hidden by the hood and is simply not becoming sufficiently aroused for it to peek out. She really should see a gyn and, embarassing as it may be, discuss this.
Thanks to everyone for your help. Like I've said, we discussed it and talked about masturbation somehow. She said total in her life she has done it 5 times. She is 15 by the way. We talked about it and it does seem, like some of you have said, she does have small knowledge of sexual themes. But thank you, and if anyone finds anymore info it is greatly appreciated. Guess i'll just have to look harder next time :) thanks again
Better if you just back off until she gets it together - including a visit to a gyn.
Probably the case is that she's just small or nervous.
Finding the clitoris is hard, in the moment. A vagina's like a rubix cube, I swear...
I just don't get how a girl couldn't find her own lol.
I mean when you rub the general area... and hit it.. its like a nub... and gives you a little extra twang!!!!