My boyfriend and I are in love. I'm a virgin, and he's aware of it, and is completely respectful. He is willing to wait as long as I need to before we have sex. We have done basically everything else. I've gone down on him, and he's gone down on me. We're usually intimate with touching and caressing each other but it just seems to be getting boring. Are there any other exciting things we can do using food or any other props without actually having sexual intercourse?
Tue, 01/31/2006 - 06:03
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Some excitement?
> Are there any other exciting things we can do using food or any other props without actually having sexual intercourse?
The classic answer is whipped cream, a cherry, or even your favorite flavoring of syrup. You might go a step further and add a scoup or two of jam or preserves plus the cream and have fun licking it off wherever it has been judiciously and strategically placed.
You can surprise him by hiding an ice cube within reach and when he is about to climax, place it squarely between his legs in the perineum {the area of the crotch between the scrotum and anus). Timing is critical. Wait until his orgasm has been triggered--or you might try placing the ice there when you know he is right on the verge. He will probably jump out of his skin yet have one whale of an intense orgasm!
As for food as props, this would seem to indicate something to be inserted either in the vagina or anus in order to stimulate the nerves around the opening of both.
* An English cuccumber can be used as a nice penis substitute.
* A carrot stick
* A candle stick
Give these a try then come back for more.
I was in this situation at one point and I can say that definitely YES, for certain, there are many fun things you can do!
1. Roleplaying - There are all kinds of scenarios that may sounds a little cliché at first but really are hot when you get into them. You can find many lists of these things by googling. With my ex and me, our favourite was the teacher & naughty schoolgirl routine. If you have a cute skirt, knee socks and some sort of button down shirt, you can do it: "You again? I hope you behave in my class this time. Don't try to seduce me with that cute little skirt and knee socks... What? Are you paying attention to me?! What are you doing?! Stop touching yourself, you're in class! Argh, do I have to teach you a lesson?! ... (you can see where I'm going with this. ) It can follow out in several ways: The teacher loses control and succumbs to the schoolgirl's charms, or he takes control and makes her put on a little show for him, and then maybe shows her the "right way" to pleasure herself. This can be especially fun if he "catches" her clandestinely using a vibrator in class... (See #2)
(Don't underestimate a man's "schoolgirl complex"!! Chances are he lusted after cute girls in cute skirts at school, and still is wired in his head to be turned on by that sort of getup. You can use this to drive him crazy. Believe me, it can work very very well. Even though we are broken up now, I still fantasize regularly about this scenario with her.)
2. Using sex toys on each other. It is so incredibly hot to use a woman's vibrator on her. Also it's hot to "instruct" her and watch her play with herself. The key thing here is you can only do what he tells you to do, so he can make you take a lot time to orgasm, or tease you really slowly with his voice. It may take him some practice to gauge your reactions and use his voice effectively, but when done right, it's really hot for both parties.
3. Light Bondage Play - Tying each other up is a lot hotter than it sounds, especially with a lot of teasing and touching.
Condoms, surprisingly, are great sex toys. Put a large dollop of Nivea or other alcohol free cream in one and start playing with him. Either of you wear rubber gloves, well lubed, to manipulate and explore the other. Jack him off with your panties, your bra. Have a "no hands" evening. Just keep his semen away from your vaginal entrance. I have delivered at least one baby from a virgin.