so my boyf and i had sex last night, and we had already done it earlier in the day. Anyway, we were having sex, i had my orgasm, then he kept going, which is fine, caus it feels amazing. THEN....He went soft. WHAT WENT WRONG?? is it me, him, or what??
Tue, 05/15/2007 - 15:01
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Soft!


He ran out of steam! The little valves that close and keep him up got tired and let the blood drain from his penis. Or it could have been his mind wandered elsewhere and let them relax. Nothing to be concerned.
It happens to us all at one point or another ! a mans penis is not a machine it cant perform on demand,
ah so women do understand:D
Hey that has happened to be too.
So we just cuddle and kiss .... and if my wife has not cum yet, I will either go down on her or finger her to her orgasms
Nothing to do with you ladies, dont think the wrong thing. Its just us, either we are tired or just thought of something that disturbs our concentration.
Communicate with each other more and you will understand each other better
It's no big deal. I wouldn't say that anything went "wrong" because nothing is wrong with you or him. It's just an inconvenience.
It happens to us all! Just be forgiving with him.