my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time saturday night (technically sunday morning, because it was 3am). it hurt really bad, but i held it out until he finished because i wanted him to enjoy it. this was my choice, he told me he wouldn't make me do anything i didn't want to do. plus i figured i'd just have to endure the pain, and the next times will feel better.
so i have a few questions now.
on monday morning, i went to the bathroom, and when i wiped i noticed some blood on the toilet paper. it didn't bleed all sunday, so why would it bleed now?
my boyfriend had a little trouble with the condom, he said he could barely feel anything and it kept going limp. any suggestions?
if i'm on bottom, what is my "role", like what do i have to do? and same question for being on top.
thankssss.
Um, well, blood can be normal after your first time.
While I did bleed immediately afterwards, I did bleed lightly for a few days off and on.
As for positions, you can make being on the bottom as enjoyable as you want. There's really no "role" as he is the one in control.
On top however, you are in control, and just kinda do whatever feels natural. You can make that as interesting as you want.