I too have a hard time believing that this is for real, but stranger things have happened.

Btw, if you're really going to do it you might want to try something besides "hanging around".... unless you just want it to be slow & painful....

Maybe I'm a cynic... but I'm just not "buyin' it".

I'm sorry... but I just can't.

I mean... first of all... it's hard to take 1/2 of the things posted on the internet seriously.

second... if this person were REALLY that depressed about it and seriously contemplating taking their own life... would they put-it-all-out there on the web to people that really CANT help him...?

What were you really expecting anyone here to do...? Solve your feelings of inadequacy...? You said it yourself... our words were meaningless to you... well, why bother asking our input at ALL if our advice and comments fall on deaf ears.

Also, why come-back after the fact and negate all our attempts in various ways to respond... only to inform us that you plan on "doing the deed" anyways...?

IF there is any truth to it... I feel sorry for those that have to endure the grief that you will cause by perfoming such a selfish and unreasonable act. If you TRULY are that upset over the size of you penis... then your problem is NOT your penis... it's your self-image, and there's NOTHING anyone here on an online sex forum could type to make you change your view(s). That's something that only YOU can fix. Not us.

For all I know... you're actually just someone who was bored and wanted to start an "interesting topic" online... or, you may actually BE small in the lower-region... but looking for sympathy...

No matter what the case is... there were people that made an effort to open-up the forum for discussion and you seem to have your mind made-up (whether it's real, or not) so... what's the point in telling us...? What are WE supposed to do about it...? What is it you want from us...?

If you do decide to act irrationally and "End your seemingly endless suffering"... I can only hope you've made peace with everyone... especially yourself.

I dunno... I just don't get the suicide thing. it makes no sense to me. Oh... and don't tell me "You don't know what it's like"... Look at my ScreenName... what does THAT tell you...? I know what it's like to be much-less than average... and FAR from large. I get it. And yet the world still revolves.

Well... either way... I say goodbye... regardless if it's just because it's the last time I respond to you or this topic... or because you have checked-out... my worthless 2-cents has been logged and I'm done. Have a good life... however long it is. (no pun intended)

how depressing
but i think hanks right nothing anyone would or could have said would change the outcome.
but still if i was male id rather be alive, have a small penis and be getting a little action than... well the alternative.

Good bye hammerhead. Nothing anyone said would have made a difference to you. Thanks for wasting my time.

Chiharu,

Dude has a bruised ego more then anything... and he seems to have mistaken his manhood with the size of the ego... If he can overcompensate in some other areas, he will pump up his ego, and be ready to be a real man, sleeping with every beautiful woman he sees...

Its not a good answer, but it is the only answer he is willling to accept.... read his post, he doesn't want any "you'll meet someone who doesn't care" or "there are other ways to make up for it" advice....

If the person doesn't want class A advice, it leaves people to throw B and C level advice...

[QUOTE=Quote (Chiharu @ Oct. 28 2003,04:40)]Hello,

    Moderator, why do you keep editing my posts? You keep taking away my opnions. What is the criteria of what I can and can not say? Are we only allowed to tell him good, positive things? If we don't truely feel that, why are we not allowed to express it? What's the point of a message board if I can't give him my honest opinion??

Chiharu.[/QUOTE]
Members are generally free to post their opinions on any matter relating to sex. They can be as explicit as is necessary to reasonably make their point.

However, posts may be moderated for a number of reasons, such as (but not restricted to) ... a post wholly or partly irrelevant to the topic, gratuitous crudity or profanity, discrimination, extreme intolerance or ridicule of others, and encouragement to others to commit an act of violence.

Members are reminded that while exercising their right to free speech, they should also respect the rights of others!

Hope this helps!

Hello,

Moderator, why do you keep editing my posts? You keep taking away my opnions. What is the criteria of what I can and can not say? Are we only allowed to tell him good, positive things? If we don't truely feel that, why are we not allowed to express it? What's the point of a message board if I can't give him my honest opinion??

Chiharu.

Javid-
I understand what you are worrying about.  When some women see a big man they expect to see a big penis as well.  However, a lot of women know better.  There is no way to tell what size a penis is by looking at the carrier, so to say.  You sound very discouraged and my suggestion would be to consider talking to a counselor.  Yes, there are a lot of shallow women (and men) out there, but if you can heal yourself now, you will be ready when the good women find you.

lordroad,

I agree with most of what you said, though I can't agree with the third paragraph. I know just as many men, if not more, that lack the 3 Rs. This is an underlining problem within our society. Don't scapegoat woman, because not all woman are like that, and because men are just as bad.

If you want the world to be a better place, start by making sure you are a good person. Rather then talking a big game, start practicing what you speak. If everyone lived by example, the world will be a better place in no time.

A lot of the guys have already addressed many of the issues. I'd just like to point out that your point 6, I believe, is the Id speaking. It's ironic that you tear into sluts when you admit you want to be a slut yourself. Granted, I used to feel the same way, and I grew out of it. Don't let your crocodile brain, or your Id, reduce you to being a male slut. 1. you won't get anywhere with hot women with this mentality if you are carrying around this bag of emotional problems, and 2., it turns you into a human animal.

Damn man... what, you're 6'3"? You know how tall I am? I'm a foot shorter. Granted, I have a seven inch member, but hel1, I would gladly give that up for your height. And I bloody well assure you having a smaller piece is not the obstacle. Do you know how many girls will not even date me because of my stature? So don't even begin to preach about dick size when you're over six feet tall. You want to talk about being cursed by God? Talk to a midget or a dwarf.

I see the moderator edited your former post, but I read the original content. It was pretty F'ed up... but I feel you on some of it. As I tell some of the younger lads in my fraternity, women lack Rhyme, Rationality, and Reason. The three R's.... rhyme meaning consistensy, rationality meaning logic, and reason meaning what some people consider the higher faculties that lead to the soul. Yeah, this is stereotypical and I'm sure it does not apply to every woman, but in my case, as well as in every one of my friends, this has been the experience. Billy Joel put it best: "She'll promise you more than the garden of Eden then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding."

But that's life, and every man has to deal with that s*it.

You don't like the hand you were dealt? Join the Army. Become a priest if you hate women. Just don't whine about it.

Newbie Dude,

No one is screwed, except for the ignorant... if you choose to be ignorant, then I agree.

uhh... id lie like most ppl do and say that its not big deal... but im just not that kind of person...

to be honest... i think you are screwed man...

Javid,

Holy crap man, get a hold of yourself... penis size does matter, but it is only one 100's of factors for woman on whether or not a man is good for them. The fact that you think this is what is stopping you from sleeping with tons of girls is ridiculous, as one usually requires personality and looks to get to the naked stage. You seem to have some serious bitterness to the world beacuse you feel that your DNA ripped you off... well, I don't hate the world because I can't dunk a basketball, I don't hate the world because I didn't grow to 6 feet, and I don't hate the world because I don't look like Val Kilmer or whoever is "hot" right now.... For your reasons, I could hate the world, because all of these short comings reduce the amount of women I could have sex with. Instead of focusing on things that I can't do anything about, I spend my time worrying about the things I can change.

You have a small dick, cry me a river man, play your violin, and have some cheese with the whine. I have friends who are well endowed, and those who "were ripped off by god" as you like to put it. Beleive it or not, there are dudes on the shorter side who do 10 times better then the dudes with bigger dicks. They do better because of their personality. They are happy, funny, and positive people, and those are qualities that go ten times further then a 9" dick.

Why is that men keep thinking that their ability to please a woman is based on their size? You've probably heard numbers on how many woman have not had vaginal/gspot orgasms through intercourse, even with dudes with large dicks... Have you ever wondered why? Sex is a lot more then a pounding to most woman! For woman to get there, it takes emotional factors like comfort, trust, respect, and for some reason, men keep acting like cave men thinking its all in their cock.

Lets go through your "facts"

1) Correction, we live in a society where the size of a man's EGO is based on his size. The bigger the dick, the bigger the ego.

2) Have you ever done marketing before? you don't waste time trying to sell ice to eskimo's. If the women you are with leave you when they see your dick, you are either marketing yourself to the wrong crowd, or you are marketing yourself the wrong way. You have a short coming, face it, accept it, and find other ways to get girls to stick around, humour is a great one.

3) Correction, no woman will ever be aroused by a depressed asshole who thinks the world screwed him over. Just because a small penis isn't a good thing, doesn't make it a bad thing. Consider getting an arsenal of toys that can help the woman your with feel fullfilled. A hollowed out strap-on dildo can do it quite nicely.

4) Unless you have a Cinderella fantasy of meeting the perfect person, No Shit Sherlock. The reason all the bald, overweight, small penised men find someone is because they have qualities that are more important. The moral of the story is that relationships are about loving people for who they are and compromise, you seem to have this mixed up with random hot anamalistic sex.

5) When the hell are you going to stop considering this a problem? No penis, only a nut sack, that is a problem. You've read it before, so you know nerve endings are in the first inch or two of the vagina... I think your problem could be you don't have enough ego to play up this image of a person you are pretending to be. Buy a sports car and some shiny jewlery, you'll be able to inflate your ego in no time. Instead of playing up this image, you should take some time to figure out who you really are, and then start living a real life.

6) Real men do get to sleep with higher quality and quantity of woman. I think I would be giving you too much credit to call you a half man, and I say this completely outside of your dick size. Change your attitudes, learn to be happy, positive, sensitive, and confident, and you'll see what being a REAL MAN is really about.

Who is Calling who a Whore?
Javid, calling woman whores completely contradicts everything you define yourself to be. Isn't it Ironic? Woman who care about sleeping with tons of "hot men" with "large dicks" are whores according to you, but wait a second, that is exactly what you want to do yourself... you whore.

Rape has nothing to do with punishing someone for not loving your little wang. Why is it everything you talk about returns to cock size??? You seem to be obsessed with dick...

You seem to have received just about every peice of advice, but its all crap you say... Perhaps its not the advice thats wrong, but the fact that you can't stop thinking about your dick long enough to process a real thought. Perhaps your definition of what a real man is, is FUCKED. Perhaps you have been worried about cock size for so long, you have lost touch with everything else.

Killing yourself over this issue has to be the stupidest thing I have ever heard, and I mean stupid. You need to do some serious soul searching, and figure out who you really are, and what it is that you want to give/take to/from this world. If I may say, your life will be much more rewarding if you give more then what you take.

I don't know dude, your problem seems to be real, but you get out of reality some how. I mean, yes, let's say, you have a problem, but i think you are just blaming your penis, and god, and the women, and the rest of the world, for it.

The problem is not that u have a small penis, the problem is that, in the way you want to live your life, your small penis seems like a problem to you. It's like the guy who wants to be a NBA player and he is only 5'4". He can follow his dream if he want to, but in the end he will most likely fail, and it's his fault. The most logical thing to do will be that he'll change his dream for another dream. Something that he can do with what he has.

Realy dude, u don't need a 6 -7 inch tool to f*** f*** and f***, if you realy want to do that, at least stop blaming god or your penis or other people. What ever you need to fix is inside you. I know a guy who is fat, short, ugly, and for what i've heard very lowsy in bed. But you always see him with a lot of different pretty girls. His secret is that he can sweet talk any girl he wants in to bed, i don't know how but he does. Of course the guy is funny and charming and he has some money. But you can take a similar aproach.

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You just need to realize that u have a problem of identity or something else i mean, YOU ARE NOT YOUR PENIS.

I hope i did help you in any way, and i hope you think it better about your life. There is some good advice in the other posts (except for Chiharu, IMHO his post don't help too much), but that's life such it is, and i think you should enjoy what you can.

C ya

I wanted to wait and see how others responded to this post first before i chimed in myself!

Here's the deal...as far as looks and body and cock size go, all you have to do is look around you! How many times have you seen 2 hugely fat people walking hand in hand with 4 kids in tow....i say to myself..my god, how the hell did he even FIND her vagina...but then i say, well...it just goes to show there's someone for everyone!

You can look on every street in every town and see people with very bad deformaties on their face or body, and they have spouses, lovers and/or significant others.

If you're giving up because you don't have a big penis, it dosn't say much for the reality of genetics. You have what you are born with. If you think life and love is about your genetalia, perhaps THAT is why u are so lonely!

you have to love yourself before you can love others...don't throw the world under the bus because its overly focused on sex appeal! There are tens of millions of women in this country, and if u think EVERY ONE OF THEM is gonna look at your penis first, you're just wrong!

So, if you're going to walk the pity parade then do so, or, you can hit the gym, get in shape, go to school and get a good job, build a career and surround yourself with people who view life as soemthing that provides endless possibilities!

Oh, and one more thing. Why don't u take a trip to Africa and tell the people there who have NO FOOD, NO RUNNING WATER, NO JOB and virtually NO HOPE, your problems! I think any of those men there with huge penis' would glady trade places with u!

Just some perspective!

Calm down, dude. There's millions of things in this world more important than the size of your cock.

There's also billions of women in the world. Read the thread on penis size, female preferences. Some like big, some like average and some prefer small.

I was once with woman who was had a lot of trouble handling my small/normal sized penis. She actually thought it was enormous. I had to work for a long time to get her worked up enough to insert it and she definitely did not enjoy it in spite of her desire to make it work. I'm sure you would have been perfect for her.

That great philosopher, (and possessor of a small one), Sam Kinison, had a routine about cock size. Paraphrasing: The next time you're told it's too small, just say- "Oh yeah, you're right, honey. It's real small. So I guess you won't mind it when I stick it up your ass?" Suddenly you're the biggest one she's ever seen- hung like a horse!

Ah.....

    If he works out and gets a great body, or becomes a suave party guy then women who see him naked will chalk it all up to OVERCOMPENSATION. No matter how it works out self improvement in other areas is exactly that.

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He'll never have real respect from other men or women. Only pity or jokes at his expense.

I too am not quite sure how to respond.

It seems that you're obsessed with having something unrealistic. I know very, very few guys who " f*** and f*** and f***", whatever size their penis is. But if sex is all you have to live for, I don't really know what to say.

hmmm
im sorry javid
im not quite sure how to respond to this post.
im sorry for these feelings you have and me not being a man can't begin to know how you feel.
but as being a woman i can say we all aren't as you said you were starting to feel towards women.
that all they talk about is the size of the cocks they've had.

cmon man, a small cock aint worth suicide, there are allways pills to add size also. there have been people in worse situations then you are too, i remember on tv sum guy loosing his penis, and then he used his thumb to replace it, and there is allways a way to solve a problem you just gotta find the way. youl eventualy find a woman for you.
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TRY and work on being the man women want, go to the gym and work out, go out and party, just have fun. make it a goal to become the ideal man, and if that still fails, then i guess that would make me wrong. in the end atleast know that you have givin life the most effort you can, thats all i can say for now.

Couple of things:

I think "Javid" just needed to vent... He has not replied to any of this, and his post-count is still "1". I am not sure if he is reading these replies or just needed to purge his feelings & move-on.

Also... don't forget... this is the web. This is text on a screen. There is a WHOLE LOT lost in translation of ANY post and/or reply. Tone, inflection, body language, presence, expression... all are lost in this medium, so we fabricate our OWN idea of those in our heads. We each can paint quite a different picture, which is one of the reasons so-many people 'argue' on these boards.

Javid's problem (if it is, in fact, true) is only as important as HE makes it. I have NEVER in my life been ridiculed for the size of my penis (at least not to my face) nor has any woman ever made derogatory comments.

I am not very well-endowed either, but I do not view it as a "Curse from God" by any means. It's nature... it's biology... it's LIFE. We only live once... I'd rather ENJOY life rather than spend it miserable, wishing that ONE aspect in my life were different.

IT'S ONLY SEX for crying-out-loud.  :o)

Seriously, there are FAR WORSE things to be down about in life. Cancer...? Parapalegics...? Quadrapalegics...? Brain damage...? Death...? My girlfriend has a LOT of health issues, and she had(has) two choices: focus on the problems and be crippled with regret and self-pity... or ACCEPT what life has dealt her and move past it and enjoy life...!

She chooses to enjoy life. She has dealt with transplants, kidney disease, HemoDialysis, Cancer, dozens-upon-dozens of surgeries and daily medications that would choke a horse.

I'm not trying to down-play your feelings (If you're actually coming back to read this) ... just the opposite. The feelings are real, but they're spawned by YOU.

To point-out another issue... you need to find your priorities. You claim that you don't care about a relationship built on love and acceptance, and that you want to just have as much sex with as many women as possible, in a shallow manner.

You take-issue with thinking that women are shallow to think of penis size, when all you WANT is a shallow encounter...!!?? you can't have them BOTH my good man. Besides. All that you claimed was speculatory. You never said that YOU were ever turned-down or laughed-at by women or that you were unable to pleasure them.

It sounds to me, like you need to get-past the size thing and figure-out what's important to you. If it's just sex... then I feel that you are missing-out in life... you only get to live once, strive for something more than spreading your seed to as many receptacles as possible. Some day, you'll wish you HAD that loving & accepting relationship. Trust me.

La,

I think it's funny to point out that most men who tell him it's not such a big deal to be small go on to mention that they are average or bigger themselves. I've noticed that alot in these posts all over this site. And I've already brought up the OVERCOMPENSATION issue already. So, don't bother with advice for him about working out, or getting a big car or jewlary. When we look at those things we know he's overcompensating for something...He is what he is... (Edited by moderator) ...

Chiharu.

dunno maybe cuz some of what we say isnt realy necessary

[QUOTE=Quote (Chiharu @ Oct. 27 2003,13:12)](edited by moderator).[/QUOTE]
...... not helping

dude i feel the same way im 13 and mines only like4.3 inches will i grow more??? i feel like such a loser becuase all the guys at my school say there like 10inches?!/1!??!?!!?!? i feel like such a loser

[QUOTE=new2this111]dude i feel the same way im 13 and mines only like4.3 inches will i grow more??? i feel like such a loser becuase all the guys at my school say there like 10inches?!/1!??!?!!?!? i feel like such a loser[/QUOTE]

LMAO... they wish!!!!
not likely.. average is like 5-6 inches.... and you are still young...and growing.. shouldn't be worrying about things like that...you are only 13!

*hugs new2this* You're fine hun. :) You have a good 4-5 years worth of growing yet and besides, as demon said, the average is 5-6. You're right on target!! ;)

I am a teen and my g.f. wants to **** but my penis is only about 5.5 inches. i'm pretty mad. is ther any i can make it bigger besides losing 35 lbs.?

iceman 5.5 is good! What are you thinking? If it is long enough to get from you to her - it is long enough!!! Try caressing her G-Spot with the head of your penis and THEN try to tell me I'm wrong. LOL

thx!!
Now is there any kind of positon that would really take her off and squirt? I want her to have a very good experience her first time as well as me ? any help?

i still want to know if any one knows some teqniques to making mw penis bigger besides losing 35 lbs?

[QUOTE=Javid;101485]Hello,

* * Well here it is...I have a very sick situation. I am a man who stands 6 foot 3" or 190cm and weighs 225lbs or 103kg. I'm a fairly "big" man. However I have a very small penis. It is 4" or 10cm. And to be honest I hate myself so much for it.
* * Now before you roll your eyes and start sending info about how it's not a real problem or that there are other techniques to please a woman or that size does not make a man, please spare yourself this wasted time. Believe me, I have poured over the material and research and all other things related to this matter and have found no solution.
* * The simple facts are these: 1. We live in a society where the size of a man's penis is related to his "Malehood" The bigger the penis the bigger the man. 2. Yes women all agree that skill is more important and oral and fingers and all that...but that's only if she sticks around long enough after seeing you naked. 3. Women do prefer bigger to smaller, or at least average! No girl has ever been sexually aroused by the thought of a small, thin penis.
4. Even if she loves you there will always be that part of her that feels some dissapointment that you were not bigger even if she does not express it.
5. There is to date absolutly nothing that can solve this problem. Women can have breast enhancments, men can have surgery which is rarely effective and only lengthens the flacid state of the penis, the errect penis is almost unaffected. This is entirely beyong my control to fix...

6. In the end I don't want to find a girl to love me and accept me and all that crap. I want to sleep with many many many girls, beautiful girls, sexy girls, the kind of girls that real men get to sleep with. And I hate that I can not. I hate that I have to look at that terrible flash of dissapointment that slips across their faces...a big man should = a big penis. It has begun to leave me cold towards women. Of a disturbing nature.

* I have recently begun to hate women. I think more and more of them as "whores" who only care about the cock size rather than the man. I look at each girl and imagine all the times they sit around a coffee table and brag about what big cocks they can get inside of them....And I know this is absolutly not true. It's stupid. Girls wouldn't be so insensitive that they would hold discussions in public about how much they like a bigger cock, or write articals in the magazines about "Can a small man really fulfill you?" or any of that other crap.

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* *I've already tried help. It's all crap. the same old "Change your priorities, you don't need the type of girls who care about size, use different techniques" etc. I am through compromising. I'm always so aroused...I have to masterbate nearly 7 times a day to keep my sexual frustration in check. I simply want to f*** and f*** and f***. But I can't and it's making my head explode. I want to be the man women want, and the man that men want to be. It'll never happen. I can't even be an average man.... I've been cursed by God.

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* Anyway, I just had to tell someone. I needed to get it off my chest.[/QUOTE]

If what you're saying here is straight up real, you're missing the entire point, dude. True, in my experience women can get just as down and dirty and potty-mouthed as men when it comes to weenie talk. A lot of women love the feel, taste, and sensation of a plus-size member. Most importantly, women are turned on by a man's confidence and the way he carries himself. I know that sounds Brady Bunch-like but it is true. We men are turned on visually; women are not one. You have to get to them with your character and humor. What you need homie is confidence. Don't waste your time watching "Dr. Phil" or other high-grade, pseudo-help shows lilke "Maury." If you ACT like your 4-incher is the most handsomest and hardest working thing going, then women will pick up on that and respond to it. Ultimately, it is a sense of humor and intelligence that make women attracted to men. You could be actor handsome and be big enough south of the border to start breeding horses but if your attitude sucks then you WILL end up alone with a TV dinner and ESPN every weekend, bro. Ask those dudes out there who are full of yards and girth but have the I.Q. of a sweet potato. Check them out when they're too old to get up and get down and they have to rely on character and intelligence. All this hate talk and whore talk you're ripping off sounds not only childish but really scary. If you don't get yourself back into the game and hang in there, you're just an episode of "The First 48" and "Cold Case Files" waiting to happen, bro. I must also say that I am not siding with you because I too am still in the boys department down there. I am one of the few who just happen to be handsome, intelligent, confident, funny and more than weenie wonderful! Stay up, homes!:p

[QUOTE=Javid;101485]Hello,

If what you're saying here is straight up real, you're missing the entire point, dude. True, in my experience women can get just as down and dirty and potty-mouthed as men when it comes to weenie talk. A lot of women love the feel, taste, and sensation of a plus-size member. Most importantly, women are turned on by a man's confidence and the way he carries himself. I know that sounds Brady Bunch-like but it is true. We men are turned on visually; women are not one. You have to get to them with your character and humor. What you need homie is confidence. Don't waste your time watching "Dr. Phil" or other high-grade, pseudo-help shows lilke "Maury." If you ACT like your 4-incher is the most handsomest and hardest working thing going, then women will pick up on that and respond to it. Ultimately, it is a sense of humor and intelligence that make women attracted to men. You could be actor handsome and be big enough south of the border to start breeding horses but if your attitude sucks then you WILL end up alone with a TV dinner and ESPN every weekend, bro. Ask those dudes out there who are full of yards and girth but have the I.Q. of a sweet potato. Check them out when they're too old to get up and get down and they have to rely on character and intelligence. All this hate talk and whore talk you're ripping off sounds not only childish but really scary. If you don't get yourself back into the game and hang in there, you're just an episode of "The First 48" and "Cold Case Files" waiting to happen, bro. I must also say that I am not siding with you because I too am still in the boys department down there. I am one of the few who just happen to be handsome, intelligent, confident, funny and more than weenie wonderful! Stay up, homes!:p

I understand completely what your going through I see all these post where people say what you been saying and everybody been giving advise i think those people have average or big penises. i go through everyday wanting to fcking die cause i have a small penis i finally got the guts the start to reply to people on their issues the same issues i have. ****[Edited by moderator]***. For the past 3 months i been depress imagining the girl i love screwing a guy behind my back with a big penis i tell her what i think she says never BUT LIFE IS A BICH. i cry and hate everything WHY WHY WHY GOD FCKING WHY could of made me 7 inches ill be happy i can satisfy my love and be satisfied myself. BUT life is a bich we live in a horrible time of racism and greed and not only that YOU HAVE A SMALL DICK man OH man y doesnt life give us a break

JustLikeU ... I suggest you get some professional help

well i would just like to say that i am see a guy that sounds just like you and he dame near the best i have ever had. at one time i did think it was all about the size but once i gave him a go i was like oh my god!!! what is really the the crazy part is that he dosent even eat pussy so its nothing but hands and dick, and i want him all the time, the down side is that i am 23 y.o and he is 50 y.o so i want it 6 times a day and he gives me 3. so now i am just going on needless to say it all how you work it!!!!!

Javid,
A big, huge penis is NOT what all women want. I once dated a NFL football player-he was your exact size all the way down to his genitals. I dumped him because his penis was too small. He was attractive, successful and treated me great, but we couldn't even have intercourse. I know he was very insecure about his penis size. He asked me why I didn't want to date him anymore and if there something wrong with him. I told him we didn't connect intellectually, but really it was the sexual problems.

It doesn't have to be huge, just big enough to enter a vagina. Some women may not care, but I do. I may sound cruel, but I'm sharing my experience.

Best of luck, TS

All women want a huge penis on their man...

Were talking AT LEAST down to your foot...like an entire legs length.

They also want hands the size of catchers mitts, and 52 inch biceps on their men.

Did I mention the unicorns that crap gold bricks too? Yea they want 10 of those.

:rolleyes:

Let's get serious guys. Some women like huge dicks. I know some women who want HUGE (were talking at least 9 inches long and about 7 inches around.) They have slept with maybe 2 or 3 guys tops who have been so "lucky". The rest only 5 or so inches. (They complain to me all the time).

These women are also self absorbed, narcissistic (sp?), b*tches. I know a lot of women who have no problem with a "small" penis. My best friend dated a man who was 4 inches hard. She said the sex was pretty amazing. He husband is around 8 inches and she has said many times she wished he was smaller.

I am around 6 inches. I can make it feel like a whole lot more just through various positions. I have never been told I am "bad in bed". But perhaps it is because rather than cry and complain to "god" that I have been cursed with an average penis, I learned how to move my hips, wiggle my tongue, and developed a form of confidence in the bedroom that seems to make women melt. I mean hell, I look at it like this. If I act like its a problem, then it will be a problem. If I just relax, then odds are we'll be okay. I pride myself on my skills and ability to last. I was once sleeping with a girl who just seemed to make me incapable of more than 10 minutes of sex. So I just relaxed, and focused on her. I used that 10 minute window to do anything and everything that made her scream. And guess what, not once did she ever complain, in fact she couldn't handle more than 10 minutes.

Did I get my point across? Or did I just go over your head?

Ive been with a guy who had a huge penis and then with one who had a tiny penis and guess what, I enjoyed having sex with them both and I got off with them both.
Size isnt everything...

I remember an army sergeant who chimed in on a discussion he was listening to amongst the troops about penis size -

"Guys, it has nothing to do with how big it is, and everything to do with the cute way you have of getting on and off"

my size is 8 1/2 long 6 1/4 girth, my girl likes to brag about it but what turns her on the most is to watch it grow because SHE makes it grow. she apreciates it because i have good hygiene, i know how to use it and i love f*cking HER with it. nothing turns her on more than knowing that SHE has the power to make my penis double in size, its MY penis shes sucking on, its ME thats inside her during those intimate moments, its MY fingers running through her hair and all over her body. its MY strokes that she ejaculates to, its MY semen running down her leg and going down her throat. bottom line its knowing i belong to her that turns her on, not the size

Starting with the fact that you are giving size more than two standard deviations beyond the mean, your post sounds phony. And, so centered on you that no woman could abide you for long.

i was trashed at a friends party and so i went upstairs to lay down well the next thing i know theres this black guy telling me to lay on my back and spread my legs so i did next thing i know he has his finger in my ass and is massaging my anus and lubing my asshole up well next thing i know the whole party is up in the room including people i know some people started cheering fuck em next thing i know i have this huge black cock fucking me infront of 40 or more people he fucked me for a while probably 30-45 minutes with all these people including a girl i liked and friends ive known for years my sister and her boyfriend saw it also. i must have finally past out. the next day friends are showing me pictures of me getting fucked and some people video recorded it on camera i was so embarrassed because no one knew i was bi hell i didnt even really know it. it took me awhile to hang around those friends again and come to find out later i found out one of my friends found out i was bi courios and told the black guy at the party that was gay that i was a bi bottom and wanted him to fuck me well he did just that. theres a picture of me getting fucked by him in MY PHOTOS you cant miss it. feel free to tell me what you think. i was more embarrassed because i could here people saying comments about how small my penis was. and some people were laughing. im only about 3 3/8 hard and when soft my penis can suck in my crotch which because i was drunk i was very soft when i was getting fucked. i was more embarassed about people seeing my cock then people seeing me take dick.

This sounds phony also, Brandye. (I've heard guys bragging and blustering before.)

if your talking about my story no it is not phony

If in fact a true story, it sure is a whopper.

As for being so short, you have a solution that in the opinion of many is better than intercourse--Foreplay, because the level of arousal is generally greater.

[QUOTE] im only about 3 3/8 hard and when soft my penis can suck in my crotch which because i was drunk i was very soft when i was getting fucked. i was more embarassed about people seeing my cock then people seeing me take dick.[/QUOTE]
I do not think you have a reason to turn into a gay just because you have a smaller penis yet it is not a micropenis. Mine is about 2 to when it shrivels because it is cold or after gym workout when flaccid it may go up to 5.6 or thereabous but I do not care so long as it stands tall when I need to please a woman:)
Why do ou let yourself humiliate that way if you care about your body and have self esteem.
I would be really humiliated and mad if someone did it to me especially with family members are involved I think it is just low very low and it is plain assault and pack or gang rape.
So what do(did) you do about it?

its true believe what u want.

Yeah I think he just needed to vent a little.. And we all see that we've proven there are worse things in life.. I mean I'm short and bald and there's nothing I can do about either one of those.. What I do is improve every other aspect of my life so that my ego can be maintained where I need it to be.. I think he needs a strong woman to beat some sense into him :p