Well I'm single now haha >,> and frankly Im 22 and I want to enjoy myself. But I remember being called a slut when at the time i had only been with 2 ppl and one of them i was still with. So its always kinda stuck with me, the bigger the number the more it makes me a slut. Im tired of it! So just please settle my brain and seriously whatever yall say that is what i will do! because im tired of being lost.
What do you consider to be a slut? If you even believe in that kinda thing.
Thank you
Someone who will at anytime with anyone, or who will let people take advantage of them and treat them like they're trash.
It doesn't matter the number for me really, so long as you're upstanding about it and don't let yourself settle for just anything, or let yourself be used and thrown away.
People will call girls sluts no matter what. Even when I was a virgin and hadn't messed around (and didn't dress provocatively), people had called me a slut. Don't give it any merit, unless you're begging for the title (dressing very skankily, overly flirting, sex with the first person to bat an eye, etc.)
as rouge said, a slut is someone who will do anything with anyone at any time and who will let people treat her as trash.
you know, while some people will go around and call any girl a slut for having been with even a single guy, once they marry they will realize the benefits of a woman who has had many partners and who will do anything at any time with one specific person
just do your best to ignore anyone calling you a slut
Traditionally we think of a slut as someone who will do anyone, anything, anytime. But there is a new breed of slut. In these days I am finding that many words have acquired new meanings. Skank, for example. In my day it was a dance- the wild flailing about that we did to reggae and ska music in the 70s and early 80s- now I understand that it means somethiung similar to slut.
For those of us in the sex positive "underworld" there is such a thing as a personal slut. A personal slut does not do it with anyone or anything anytime. A personal slut devotes her or his slutiness to one person.
I know slut who claims that not just anyone can be a slut; it is an honorable title which one must work to deserve!
haha Skanking is still done by the dedicated fans of second and third wave ska, I myself being one :P
[QUOTE=Rouge;253083]haha Skanking is still done by the dedicated fans of second and third wave ska, I myself being one :P[/QUOTE]
Ah yes, Skanking. Good times. :D
Slut is a term used as social control. It's rather like religion.
Ignore anyone who uses the word and tell the world repeatedly in your head to go f**k itself.
This way lies freedom from the casual oppression of the individual that society imposes on all us. So glad I'm passed caring anymore. It's a wonderful thing! :D
A slut is whatever the speaker defines as same. See wet one's post above. That will reinforce the speaker's feeling. So what?
You permit other people to define who you are?