Okay...so i'm having a slight problem that is turning itself into a bigger problem then it needs to be. My boyfriend (no matter how much i tell him) isn't getting the point of pleasing me first, then him second...since it takes so much longer for me! It seems like he's all for it, and just as things start getting good for me, he stops. He says he's tired and blah blah blah. I've YET to have an orgasm with him, but can have them on my own just fine (since the last few months of exploring hehe) If he would just give me some time, and let me tell him what works, then everything would be fine!
I'm starting to feel like all he wants is what he wants, and forget about me...which I think it goes both ways...we both deserve pleasure, and not one over the other.
Any advice on how I can get him to do things to me? as much as I do for him? I never give up on him...I make sure he's fully satisfied, then I get left hanging... =( and horny of course...booooo its no fun!
Does he enjoy just kissing you and enjoy exploring your body or does he go for goal straight away? Does he do oral/finger or just go straight for his own fun?
I always loved just being with my girlfriend and making sure she was happy and it always made it better for me too, When she was satisfied a few times she was more than willing to reciprocate. In many ways spending time focusing on her is better for us men as it definitely heightens our own pleasure.
Please read the relevant info in the Index and then encourage him to read the information regarding making out, hand jobs and oral, and intercourse. All the information he needs to begin becoming a great lover is there. He just needs to understand the importance of the information as it pertains to your satisfaction and his happiness.
Stop letting him drive then!
Take control and just go for it for your own pleasure.
Stop telling him anything and just show him by doing.
Some men are just slower than others to learn.
"Come here, little boy..."