I've been going out with my Girlfriend for about a month now and we haven't kissed yet! :mad:. On the other hand she lets me explore her body with my hands and sometimes mouth :D. She says that she yearns to kiss me, but wants to wait for the right moment to kiss :rolleyes:. I just don't understand what is going on because it's like I skipped first base. Both of us are virgins and we are not in a rush to have sex. We just want to have fun, but I want to have fun while kissing her.
Anybody ever have this type of experience or situation?
I have to admit that I don't quite understand her attitude. I've always thought of kissing as one of the first intimate activities that a couple do, certainly before exploring one another's bodies with their hands. It sounds like she regards kissing as an expression of a strong emotional bond, which is ok. However, I would have thought that a simple kiss would have been one of the first things that she would be happy to do.
Maybe, as Ducy suggests, there is some bad experience in her past which she hasn't quite got over yet.
my neighbor went through this....it was pretty interesting circumstances as to why she did not want to kiss. but it was a case of being forced into doing things in her last first relationship. Like her first kiss was sort of "forced" upon her. so she was waiting for the right time with my neighbor....doubt that this is your girlfriends reason.
I find it odd for her to let you "explore" yet she wants to wait for a kiss to be right....i mean understandable that she wants it to be the right time, but to let you skip to second....even third base....is strange....
Try taking her out on a romantic date....dinner on the beach....watch the sunset and then lean in to kiss her while the sun is going down.....if this isnt romantic enough then dunno if she really wants to kiss you....i suggest this simply because i tell my friends to do this on a first date...or a "date where they want to move past friends and into gf territory" lol....and it works like a charm everytime.
when i first met my guy, he made a move on me without kissing me first to show interest. when i asked him about it, he said that a kiss was actually more intimate than touching or even sex, and he thought it would scare me because i didnt know him that well...
[QUOTE=eminatic;193321]when i first met my guy, he made a move on me without kissing me first to show interest. when i asked him about it, he said that a kiss was actually more intimate than touching or even sex, and he thought it would scare me because i didnt know him that well...[/QUOTE]
Thats a quite interesting way of looking at a kiss....never thought of it that way.
[QUOTE=eminatic;193321]... he said that a kiss was actually more intimate than touching or even sex...[/QUOTE]
I have heard it said that some hookers will not kiss their "tricks" for exactly this reason - go figure! :confused:
Thanks for all your replies! My girlfriend once told me she waited 2 months to kiss a boyfriend, but she wouldn't tell me why... I think the best thing to do is just wait it out.