ok heres the deal,
me and my girl are both virgins. we have been dating for a while now and both want to try new sexual things ( souch as sex... we'v done eveything elce) but im sorta skaird of getting her pregnent... i need to know for shure that she will be ok after. like is there a special condom that will kill my little men? or do i have to buy that spermicide stuff?? and what is the most trusted and tough ( wont break ) condom on the market? we both realy want to have sex but im just wonderin about our future... thx
Sk8er
The first thing you must do is accept that any time a penis is in a vagina there is a possibility of pregnancy. "Birth control" is exactly that: control, not prevention. If you are not ready to look your father in the eye and say, "She is pregnant," you should use alternative means of mutual satisfaction.
Getting by that, you need real education. Not piecemeal pick ups as you get here, but a good comprehensive education on how both bodies work. Read the Chick Chat on "Am I ready?" It is written for women but you may learn something there.