I have a slim body but a meaty mons pubis. (where the pubic hair grows on top) IS THIS UGLY?? I see most girls are flat on top with hardly any meat. I have a small labia minora tho, (The inner flaps of skin) Its all tucked inside my outer lips (Labia Majora). I feel embarrassed about the way i look. My fiance says he loves my V shaped bonnet. But i cant get out of my mind that he would rather me look like a porn star. (As he was obsessed with porn before i met him) And iv thort of getting my Mons Pubis liposucked. Please give me your opinion...:confused:
Thu, 01/18/2007 - 05:10
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The Size Of The Labia?
The only person you have to please is him. If he likes what he sees, then that is all that should be all that matters.
We are all made different.
I think meaty mons pubis are soooo sexy but then that is just my opinion
I think so too. Forget the porn star look, its not reality. DON'T get liposucked!
Nevermind all of that - no decent man is going to complain about it!
Remember "its the person not the packaging that matters!"
As long as your interest in him keeps up, he'll be quite happy to welcome you with open arms.
Keep it the way it is. It really isn't worth the pain and discomfort to go through anything like that since I really don't think a guy cares that much if at all. As a guy, I really don't care what it looks like down there, just so I have access to it.
There is a huge variation in the specifics of how we women are put together. This has given rise to a relatively new area of cosmetic surgery. If you do a search on labial surgery you will find all sorts of adverts for cosmetic surgeons. Most importantly, you will se all sorts of pictures of "normal" and "abnormal" labia. Generally, if there is no discomfort during sex or, even, sitting, you are in the normal range.
Take a look at the rest of your body. If you are overweight, this is simply part of the larger issue. If you are not overweight, then you simply have larger labia than most women. The only women I have referred for labial surgery have been those with surgical damage (birth, for instance) or one with really grotesque malformation of the inner lips.
Though I cannot address liposuction of the labia specifically, most women who have lipo do not look that much different two years later.
Looking at a porn star is different than looking at your woman. I like smaller and flatter Labias (both minora and majora) but my wife isn't made like that. I may like looking at smaller but I would rather eat her the way she is than to spend my time looking at a picture. I would say that you should leave it alone. A woman in your bed is better than all the girls in the pictures.
i'm male- i didn't even realise the vagina was meant to be attractive...
i really don't care about the size of a womans lips for that reason. i'm hardly going to think "wow! her lips are huge! this sex will be fantastic!"
is that just me?
Hal,
You will never see the vagina without special instruments - it is internal.
personally, a large labia majora can look attractive on some women
as long as your husband enjoys what he sees, don't worry if other guys would