If you've tried and tried to talk to him with no results, your instinct to move on is good. He's being utterly inconsiderate of you. He's refusing to give you what you need regardless of your attempts to communicate with him.

Yea if you've tried to talk to him about it and he's saying things like "you're selfish" and he's acting like an ass... then time to seriously think about moving on.
You say you love him... but how he treats you isn't the way you treat someone that you love.
Just stand your ground, and who cares if he bitches and whines if he doesn't get his way?!?!? This is the real world sweetie! lol
Just say whatever and leave and go do your own thing... hang out w/ friends..etc. Who has time to listen to someone bitch about something like that?

BJs are a treat.. not a privilege! lol

And what about your past b/f is he talking about? Did you or someone tell him you did that for past b/fs everyday???

There is no good reason for one partner to get so much more satifaction then the other. My wife is great about "helping out" during that time of the month and I love her all the more for it. I never take that for granted and am willing to do whatever she would like when she is ready. It sounds like your boyfriend is right out of the 50's with his views towards women. Let him know how you feel and if he walks...so be it.

I think you know what you need to do. Just by the way you talk about him, it's easy to see you want out. If you've talked to him and he hasn't changed what else are you gonna do? Find someone who treats you well and not someone that expects that every time you see him. Someone who you don't dread seeing.

Good luck!!

Drop him, IMO. You don't need that kind of relationship.

I think within your question, you really gave yourself an answer.

[quote=palooza;225235]:eek::eek::eek:my bf is really starting to burden me with his bjs. he demands at least one a day but gives NOTHING BACk ever. If he doesnt get them he calls me a slacker and acts like an ass. Its to the point that most the time i am performing on him and I am giving him bjs way more then we have intercourse and i NEVER cum he has become a huge selfish burden to me and ive talked and talked to him about it but he doesnt listen. he is constantly saying i gave more to my exs then him he wont let my past relationships die. I am at the end of my rope and seriously think its time to move on. I have gotten to the point where I actually dred being aound him because its all about getting him off. He doesnt focus on any other aspect of our relationship. I have told him his actions are turn offs and so on that I need emotional stimulation and forplay and SEX geeze he wont even let me react naturally he insists on me ACTING to make him cum better SO SICK OF HIM! I have never believed in sex as an addiction but for the love of god i am starting too. I love him but his cross is too hard for me to bare i am resenting his penis sooo much and his attititudes when he doesnt get any. I am going NUTZZZZZZZZZZZZZ[/quote]

And he is still your boyfriend WHY??? Because he treats you so well???

Agreeing with al the others about ditching him. That is just rude, I really don't know how so many girls put up with stuff like that. If you really want that as a last resort, then at least stop giving him pleasure and tell him you want some first. If he throws a hissy, thats his problem, let him go.

He's wrong, next time throw him a bottle of lube and tell him to use his hand.

SOC you are rough.................LOL

She's rough CL but she's right....I like her style LOL

I speak the truth....it may be harsh (or rough) yet if you let him run all over you they will. We all fall for the tears and the puppy dog eyes, but come on..

I don't think that would be harsh at all..

Wait until the bastard falls asleep and handcuff him, hands behind his back, then cuff his ankles as well. Do not wake him up. Then spend the day IGNORING him. Yes, I know this breaks the rules regarding bondage - but doing this to him is no worse than what he's been doing to you. For a bit more fun, put a large chopping block in his line of sight and 'thunk' a cleaver down into the wood as if in 'preparation' for somethiing more. Smile sweety at him and leave again - let him think about this. You could give him a bj and BITE him while doing it - several times just to make the point crystal clear.
(you see why men don't like to irritate me?)

Delightful thoughts - but their real purpose is to GIVE YOU A BACKBONE.

GET RID OF HIM

That sounds more like it EEK, heheh.

he sounds like an asshole and he doesn't appreciate what your doing for him and i say you should leave him

dude, why are you still sucking??? when it became a "job" (no pun intended) you should have stopped right then and there.

A Chik confession

Years ago, while perfecting my technique if you will, I gave a guy a hickey (that's what he called it anyways) giving one. LOL

Oh I can go you one more.

Early on in my experience, the first time someone tried to reciprocate simultaneously, I lost all my technique and stopped but didn't let go with my hand...wound up with such a death grip, 'he' ran and hid and didn't come out again for a while.

I still have trouble keeping up my technique during simultaneous, but I'm getting better, and at least I've learned to let go ;)