Usually you don't just whip it out LOL. If you have a relationship.. you start out slow and move forward from kissing to foreplay... and then if you 2 are ready.. sex.
By then, you should feel more comfortable w/ the person .

...and yourself.

Bashfulness, shyness, insecurity, are all part of the human experience. You get over it by building confidence--in yourself and in your relationship.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the size of your penis. It is well within the range of "normal". What matters most is that you learn how to use it and that you become a loving, caring, compassionate, knowledgeable, skilled lover. There is much more to this that is important than size.

6 inches is fine. That's about normal for most guys.

When the desire overcomes the fear - then you'll be ready for sex.
Foreplay is NOT just for women btw - it is also for men. Gives them time to get over "being shy" so no, you don't "just whip it out". 6 inches is about right.

To build confidence - talk to women WITHOUT trying to pick them up. Say hello, comment on the weather, ask them who they fancy in the Derby, if they're Arsenal fans (trying to keep it UK for you), ask anything you can think of that has nothing to do with sex. Women are people too - a mix of good, bad, and indifferent - there's really no need to be shy. Talk to each for approximately 15 minutes - or until their bus arrives.

I'm only about 5.5" and I'm 23 so I would say you aren't doing too bad. Just learn how to use it andyou shouldn't get any complaints.

[QUOTE=way-to-shy!;167135]im 17 and a virgin still. im to shy/scared to get my penis out infront of a girl :( its not the biggest penis, its about 6 inches. am i going over the top about this???

and how do girls like a guys pubic hair? should i trim or what?[/QUOTE]

Hey bro you know what a women will find insanely unattractive??

That you give a **** about this. If you feel your penis is to small to please her, she will feel the same.

Women are far less physical beings than men. Meaning they are far more in touch with how confident and sexy you think you are, rather than what what her opinions are on size and hair.

I got a small dick, and i don't give a ****. I got a really hairy chest, and the same women who say they hate chest hair by day, are the same women clenching a handful of my chest hair contradictorily screaming out how sexy my chest hair is.

So if you keep thinking your an in-secure virgin....well thats all women will see. You have to learn to gain confidence and spin things in a good light. Your not inexperience your patient. You don't lack in size you are just well proportioned to give her pain free amazing pleasure!

I don't care about pubic hair what so ever, it doesn't bother me... But every girl is different... I know for a fact that some women find it EXTREMELY attractive for a man to trim or shave his pubic hair... But no need to worry about size...