i no this has gone over in so many other threads. its differnet 4 everyone though which is why i was hoping 2 post here,.
my guy and i, been 2gether, 3 months. i really wnat 2 have sex wit him. i told him that, and he wants 2 as well.
was all ready, but now.. fraid. i luv him ya no? just worry bout pain, what hell think of me naked cuz hes never seen that b4'
i think drinkin wud be my best bet becuz i wud be more willing to let him see me. but then i wont remember.
or wut if i just drink a bit, enuff 2 get me comfortable but still able to remember? wut u guys think?
no i dont have 2 get drunk, im not sayin that. i just want to have sex wit him but how do i explain i dont like my self. but i luv him n i want 2 go throu wit it.
Tue, 02/28/2006 - 22:04
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shud i drink?
I actually always wonder the same thing about my boyfriend seeing me naked, but I dont think you should get drunk to do it.
I dont know, maybe buzzed I guess that would be okay. It would release tension that might make it harder to do things but just be careful because it also impairs your judgement.
Alcohol will make you less inhibited and also, possibly, less careful. It will also dull the senses.
Stated simply, it will make you more likely to do something but less likely to enjoy it.
Well. I wouldn't drink, not for my first time. The few times that I have mixed alcohol and sex have ended in me being dissatisfied and I'm very glad that it wasnt for my first time.
As to the Naked thing, well, I would work on not feeling shy while being naked around him before actually having sex, after all, there's not much covering you during that particular act ^_^. And being comfortable in your own skin is always beneficial.