I'm not new too sex, i'm 20 and have had a fair bit of experience. But to be honest I don't have a clue what I am doing. I've only been on top about twice in my life, i refuse to do it. Simply because i don't know what to do, people mis-understand this and think i'm just a selfish lover. But I seriously haven't got a clue how to move, and when I have gone on top it just ends up as a disaster, I just want to know how to move in the normal girl on top posistion. I just don't understand why I can't do it, its not as though I lack rhythme, but its difficult enough working out how to get it in, and it really spoils the mood.
I'm just starting something new with someone, I may be jumping ahead slightly, but I need to be prepared, if I want to impress him because i really have strong feelings for him and to be honest he really is my first ever real crush.
Help for the love of god?
wow. so ok. it depends on the guy.
but as a generalization - once your in, start grinding your hips until your comfertable, then you can try other things. i know what you mean, cause i used to be the same way. but you ahve to make sure hes REAL hard if you want to move up and down in the usual manner. youll be clumsey at first, but itll get better.
lots of stuff i know i found on cosmopolitan.com - try it.
good luck!
Grinding in what direction? See? I really don't have a clue. And how do you actually move up and down? :(
OK there you are atop him, move up a bit, sliding forward, and have him help slide his penis inside of you when you slide back down. Now, you are straddling his body and you're basically on your knees. You don't actually do move up and down as if you have your feet on the floor, you move up and down the shaft of his penis which means rocking forward and upward then back and downward using your knees at the pivot point - rather like posting at the trot while riding a horse. He can help by moving his hips and it also helps if the bed has some bounce to it. But your actual movements will differ based upon your physical size and his physical size; how tall, how flexible etc. You will have to experiment - and each man is different so be prepared to modify your technique.
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