Ive been talking to a girl online and we've been heavily flirting and talking sex and what we're going to do to each other when we get together, and im really excited about this.
now the only issues i have are the following:
-im a 25 year old virgin -- and she is extremly sexually experienced
and
-im not that "long". slightly below average actually
now we talk sexually a lot and i have this feeling that shes creating an expectation from me that i may not be able to live up to. i know we're having sex when we get together since we pretty much literally said we're going to do it. so thats a given
i thought that on the day we meet i would just go about having sex and not say anything. but at the same time i dont want to disappoint her about both those issues. is it a good idea to mention them ahead of time? or once we're done, talk about the fact that i was a virgin? or maybe even right before we begin?
i dont know really what to do..any ideas?
well Ill answer this in two parts, the first part is yelling at you for trying to get with a girl online, and the dangers ect, and that I hope this isn't a minor. They have been busting TONS of pedos recently.
The second part, is what you want to know. As people always say about issues is that there needs to be communication. So I suggest you go ahead and tell her that you are a virgin. and just don't worry about your wang, you'll be fine. back to the virgin thing, if you tell her now, you don't have to worry about what she will say or how she will react when you are there. She will also know that she will have to guide you somewhat. If you completely don't tell her, you will be extremely nervous the whole time and be guessing at what to do ( somewhat). My advice for trying to get some sex exp before you meet her, is to watch some pornography and learn the basics from there, then just be a HELL of a lot more respectful than they are, (lol, no cumming in their face, no anal ect)
As they say in 40 year old virgin, She is sure thaty you don't have any STDs :) .
EDIT:
I forgot to mention, always use protection
to answer your first part: shes my age and she found me online..
ive done alot of reading about how to please women around the net and on this site..so i feel confident i can perform well but i just dont want to mislead her since its my first time, and shes thinking im some sex god. she even told me she thinks of me when she masturbates...so im sure i should fess up at some point. but i think i agree with you.
any other suggestions anyone?
anyone else??
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ahem.... guess not
std, remember aids may takes as long as 3 to 6 month to show the antibody....
i waited out with a friend once, but never a gain. protect yourself. don't make your first time your last time....my two cents.