[QUOTE=Quote (micromart @ May 23 2005,10:47)]thanks for the reply! she is younger than me and yet she's more experienced than me! i will wear a condom so i will be alright on the safety point, should i have a (alcoholic) drink before hand, it ususally calms me down?[/QUOTE]
it's not what size it is - it's how u use it as they say!

does alcohol make an erection droop tho so that may not be useful? anyone know if i'm right?

uncreativename

Hi Micromart,
Well, you've already been given the best advice... calm down.  Remember, this is supposed to be fun.  

A good technique for first time partners is "Show and Tell".  Let her guide you to what she finds enjoyable and you do the same for her.  Example: Let her place her hand over yours and show you where and how she likes to be touched.  It works both ways... you do the same for her.  Don't be shy about asking her how something feels.  If you aren't honest with each other about what pleases you then it's much harder to really learn what the other likes.

Don't worry about her having more experience... everyone is different.  So each time you are with a new partner you have to learn what works for them.  As long as you are both interested in pleasing each other, no worries.

Also, PLEASE!!!  don't worry about the size of your penis.  As someone who has experienced a few (LOL), a caring and considerate lover matters WAY more than size.  One of my favorite lines from the movie "Witches of Eastwick" (as they are creating the "perfect" man and discussing what size is best)... "As long as it works, it's in!"  

I'm glad you said you are going to be safe... so all that's left for me to say is:

Good luck and Take care.

My thoughts are that maybe she'll just let you relax and she'll take over and give you the night of your life.
That would be what I would do if I was w/ a guy for the first time and I was experienced and he wasn't.
But hey, thats just me

BTW... how old are you guys? you mention she's younger but dont say. just curious??

First of all relax. Second be caring and don't be afraid to ask her what she wants and what she likes. Usually what work for every woman is different so if you want it to be right for her you have to ask. Take it slow. And you might want to masturbate or something before hand so you don't feel the need to prematurely ejaculate. Of course the biggest thing is still being relaxed. and if she feels the same way about you that you do about her she'll be willing to work through things with you. good luck and be safe!