I'm still a virgin at 22 and I'm seriously considering getting an escort to have sex with. Hopefully it it will give me some desperately need experience and skills that will help me overcome my insecurities. This site michellesescorts.com seems repuatable, and the women are amazing. The only downside I see is the slight chance of an STD, but I think that would be all but eliminated by using a condom? Any thoughts?
Tue, 08/16/2005 - 06:13
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Should I lose my virginity to an escort?
it might just be me but i would not go for an escort XD just something about that seams wierd to me dont rush ne thing ive never had a one night stand but for me bein in love makes the sex only better
I dont know if thats the right option, I know for me I wouldn't be able to do that because I think I had to wait till I was comfortable with the girl before I could try anything.
I don't know about the escort thing... Maybe you can find an older woman who's hitting her sexual prime and is looking for a young man to help her out! Someone who you could spend more than an hour or two with who could really show you the ropes. Of course, if you really think you want to go the escort route, then by all means do! Good luck in your decision!
I don't want to be judgemental, and if this is something you are sure you want to do, go for it.
Anyway, my new bf was a virgin when we started seeing each other, and he always says how glad he is that I was his first partner. That's something to think about: will you regret losing your virginity to an escort when you finally get into a LTR with someone you care about? If you honestly don't think you will do, then it's not a problem. Just something to think about. My boyfriend assures me I was well worth the wait... :P Good luck with whatever you decide
If YOU think it will help, it probably will.
Yep, they are trained professionals and its not a bad idea. Yes, you'll h ave to insist on safe sex, and also remember this, prostitution IS illegal..so in addition to her "fee" you might have to do dinner and/or drinks. You need to make it clear you're a virgin too! That will make a difference. Learn from her, listen....i say go for it..just remmeber: CONDOMS and VICE
BornRich, while these girls are "amazing" and are no doubt highly skilled, IMHO they are not worth $350-$400/hr. (I'm cheap, sue me.) For that kind of money I'm sure you could get some excellent counciling that would help you to meet someone to have a relationship with. I just don't see that an hour or two with one of these girls will really help you other that getting you off.
Go out with your friends, or go out and make friends, and meet people. If you feel too insecure for that at this point, get counciling first. I know how you feel, I was shy myself. One day I decided to do something about it, said to myself "Screw this.", and afterward it was easier to approach and talk to people. It gets easier the more you have contact with different people and the older you get. I don't think an escort is going to get you what you really need.
Hope this helps.
if you want to then go for it! you wouldnt be the first person to have done. i wouldnt say its a commonly done thing but it happens a lot more than people think. if you feel you want to then you should do it. i doubt youd get an std because dont they use condoms with every client anyway?
good luck