She should be in no doubt about how you feel. No faking but relax enough to be more verbal - try whispering to her telling her how beautiful she is, for example.

dont fake

i agree with ^

whisper to her and tell her things

kiss her while your doing it

and i even like when my boyfriend holds my hand while having sex

Don't fake it, be honest.

To me, "faking" in any respect is, after TV :eek: , the worst sex killer.

Agree. Don't fake. It's much better to have an open discussion about it. Try to find other ways to let her know how much she really is pleasing you.

nope dont fake. try to relax and let your breathing get heavier, possibly while holding her hand and if it feels good at a certain point you could squeeze her hand

my boyfriend isn't a big moaner, but as ^ all say he whispers to me and then as we get more intense he grabs my hand and squeezes it tight...which is very nice.
as long as you express how you feel some way or another ;)

Don't fake moaning, why??? My current boyfriend is VERY quiet...thankfully I can look into his eyes to see he is in fact enjoying it and not dead. If he began moaning, I would know something was wrong! Just try conveying verbally how good it feels, start w/simple stuff! Men are either moaners or not...

My girlfriend commented on how I wasnt very vocal. I chilled out a bit & became more comfortable with her, then the noises came naturally.

Sirene:
Were you vocal w/other women? Or is it many just take time for the vocal part to kick in (ie: when he is comfortable)? I find it odd w/my bf that he is not, I know somewhere in his mind he has to have some good evil thoughts, which would be great if he would share from time to time w/me. I have tried to "initiate" and he said it can be distracting.