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I have met this girl that I like she is pretty hot, but she has some issues and she is very up and down emotionally. The thing that worries me is that she is addicted to porn so much and she loves enormous dicks. She has all these pictures of them in her room and she is rather obsessed.
She has not seen my dick yet, but now I am afraid because she is so into 12 inchers and that sort of size. Now I only have a average size willy. I am scared that she will be turned off by it. It would be like Danny Devito standing next to Shaq.
She likes me and my sense of humor, but I think that she will not accept my weiner length. It is thicker than average though so maybe that will help.
Is there any way to make it work with a girl who loves big dicks so much, when I am average, or should I just throw in the towel before she even sees mine? Are there some other options?
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;227301]The chances of finding a man with such a large endowment is slim to none. That said, you and any other man is going to be competing against an image she has.
You can tell her you are of normal size and see what she says. If you do not want to show her just yet, let her feel it and then decide whether the man or his endowment is the most important.
I do not know of any woman who is addicted to porn. Are you sure, or does she just enjoy watching now and then?
I rather doubt you can get her to accept a real man vs what she perceives as real in a video. She needs a reality check. You need to accept a woman who likes you for you, not what you have.[/QUOTE]
Yip, she definately is addicted to porn. she even told me!
The chances of finding a man with such a large endowment is slim to none. That said, you and any other man are going to be competing against an image she has.
You can tell her you are of normal size and see what she says. If you do not want to show her just yet, let her feel it and then decide whether the man or his endowment is the most important.
I do not know of any woman who is addicted to porn. Are you sure, or does she just enjoy watching now and then?
I rather doubt you can get her to accept a real man vs what she perceives as real in a video. She needs a reality check. You need to accept a woman who likes you for you, not what you have.
[quote=johnnymac57;227304]Yip, she definately is addicted to porn. she even told me![/quote]So why bother?
Run for the hills. An addictive personality is the LAST thing you need. If she can't see that her actions are putting (undue, by the way) sexual and emotional pressure on you, she's not paying much attention to you or your feelings and is therefore not worth your time.
Yup! Why devote any more time to her, unless you are just curious and want to study her notions.
The chances are very likely that you can never measure up to what she likes. Most of us come in under 6"/15.24cm so what chance do any of us have with such unrealistic expectations?
I'm wondering why she does not know what the normal range is, why she has a preference for the nearly unattainable, AND, why she is fixated on size and not the man's knowledge and skill with what he has.
Are you sure she isn't just yanking your chain in order to get a reaction out of you? Whatever your answer, it really does not matter what the motive, she is not interested in you the person.
I think if I were a man; the [COLOR=red]BIG[/COLOR] [COLOR=red]RED FLAG [/COLOR][COLOR=black]would be all the pictures in her place! I'd be running with both feet on the pavement...the other way! [/COLOR]
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;227312]Yup! Why devote any more time to her, unless you are just curious and want to study her notions.
The chances are very likely that you can never measure up to what she likes. Most of us come in under 6"/15.24cm so what chance do any of us have with such unrealistic expectations?
I'm wondering why she does not know what the normal range is, why she has a preference for the nearly unattainable, AND, why she is fixated on size and not the man's knowledge and skill with what he has.
Are you sure she isn't just yanking your chain in order to get a reaction out of you? Whatever your answer, it really does not matter what the motive, she is not interested in you the person.[/QUOTE]
I think she knows what the average size is, but she just craves the monsters. She does scare me a bit though. Maybe this whole thing is not such a good idea.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;227312]Yup! Why devote any more time to her, unless you are just curious and want to study her notions.
The chances are very likely that you can never measure up to what she likes. Most of us come in under 6"/15.24cm so what chance do any of us have with such unrealistic expectations?
I'm wondering why she does not know what the normal range is, why she has a preference for the nearly unattainable, AND, why she is fixated on size and not the man's knowledge and skill with what he has.
Are you sure she isn't just yanking your chain in order to get a reaction out of you? Whatever your answer, it really does not matter what the motive, she is not interested in you the person.[/QUOTE]
I think she knows what the average size is, but she just craves the monsters. She does scare me a bit though. Maybe this whole thing is not such a good idea.
If I met a girl who thought porn was real and had giant phalli pics all over her room, I'd probably run for the nearest UV sanitizer while covering myself in disinfectant. There is just no way I could trust the judgment of someone like that and I'd feel like any sexual encounter would be driving through a potential mine field.
[QUOTE=funinthesun;227329]If I met a girl who thought porn was real and had giant phalli pics all over her room, I'd probably run for the nearest UV sanitizer while covering myself in disinfectant. There is just no way I could trust the judgment of someone like that and I'd feel like any sexual encounter would be driving through a potential mine field.[/QUOTE]
I am sure I could find a better girl to lose my virginity to, this chick will probably tie me to her bed and rape me repeatedly and do weird things to me. I think I will prefer it to be a more natural experience. Something tells me that with her it will be too much for me to handle. Plus I am nervous of STD's from her. I am to blame though- when you remain a virgin so long you can start to make poor choices. I should have gone about this differently.
Oh please- she can't tie you down without your consent. You won't get STDs if you wear a condom. There's very little "unnatural" about what she's offering. Quit being a wussy. She's female. You're male. You're in with a chance. You've waited long enough. Stay in charge, more or less, and you'll do fine. Then you can run away or smile nicely when she kicks you to the curb.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;227483]Oh please- she can't tie you down without your consent. You won't get STDs if you wear a condom. There's very little "unnatural" about what she's offering. Quit being a wussy. She's female. You're male. You're in with a chance. You've waited long enough. Stay in charge, more or less, and you'll do fine. Then you can run away or smile nicely when she kicks you to the curb.[/QUOTE]
Maybe I should get quite drunk first, then it will be more hazy and I can just get this out of my system. I would have preferred it to be with someone I love, but that would just make a lot of extra pressure. With this girl there won't be too many emotions involved and I can just get the feeling of being inside a girl for the first time, that feeling should be worth it right?
Hold out for it to happen the way you really want it to happen. If you want it to be with someone you love, stick to your guns. If you truly are okay, in your heart and soul, with just losing it for the sake of losing it, go for it. I'm not arguing for either, just saying you should do it the way you REALLY want it to happen.
And don't get 'quite drunk'. Especially if you're doing it for the sake of the feeling of being inside someone. If you have to get so drunk you don't care how it happens, you're probably going about it in a way you don't really want it to happen. And by the way if you're that drunk your sensitivity will go down and you won't remember a thing.
Forget getting drunk as your performance will suck big time. Yes, by all means, stick with your romantic notions - look where they have gotten you. The fact is you have blown this whole thing up, in your mind, into a huge extravaganza tied around with both fear and pink ribbons when it really is quite simple and quite fun.
yahh i'm seeing major red flags, she probabnly has some major issues and i would advise you to just walk away