ok I don’t know if I am jus reading to much into this or what but here is my situation...... ok I feel like when ever I do something or go somewhere I always think to ask my b/f if he would like to come with or whatever, and I always feel like I am thinking about him no matter what I am doing! but the thing is I don’t think he does, I mean I don’t expect him to be with me or think about me 24-7 but I would kind of hope that he would think to ask me if he was going and doing something, and it always seems like he is in a bad or jerky mood around me and never seems happy to see me and stuff. am I just being paranoid or what? cause it is really hard on me to think that he is not into me any more! anyone have some help for me??? 
Sat, 03/20/2004 - 00:52
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should i end it over this?
Smart Lady! You figured it out all by yourself. Communication when it works is one of the best tools to find a solution.
Congratulations!
hey thanks for the advise but after i posted last night i decided to just talk to him about it, so i did and he was just liek sorry i had no idea! so i was really happy he said he would try to be more considerate and all that good stuff! so we are great now thanks for the advise anyways!!!
"What they said."
Although I'd add that if things are as you described, you don't have to end it - it's already over (probably).
I'm always amazed at how people will stay in these "out of balance" relationships. (And when I hear, "Oh but I love him/her SOOO much!!!" I want to scream "WHY!?!"
Get balance or get out. It may not be that easy, but it is that simple.
Wally
oberons right
some guys (not all)
just don't realize the things they do sometimes
like he might not even know he's doing anything that upsets you.
plus, sometimes guys don't think to be as considerate.
like let you know if they are gonna be somewhere or whatever.
they don't even think about it.
mind you not all guys again lol.
don't want to upset anyone.
just try talking to him. maybe something you did is bothering him that you didn't even know you did and he's just never had the courage to open up the lines of communication.
it works both ways.
good luck in whatever happens.
Clueless15, this is not a brush off, but you are asking the wrong people. Ask him. But be prepared for whatever answer he might give.
If I were in a bad relationship that wasn't going to go anywhere, I'd want to know as soon as possible. The longer it goes on, the worse it gets. And the more time you waste that you could be using to find someone right for you.
Conversely, I would hate to end a good relationship just because I didn't talk out our problems and find a solution. He's not a mind-reader. Maybe he has no idea that you feel this way. Find out.
And we'll be here if you need to vent either way. Good Luck.
I'm gonna ditto wally's statement.
there were a couple of relationships that i have been in (kiddie relationships mind you) where i just stopped showing interest and waited for them to end it. i was of course being used, and it wasn't really what one might see as a mature relationship anyway. You'll have to talk to him first, and this is only one possibility out of several named already, but your bf could possibly doing the same thing clueless.