Hot damn, well i thought i wo udl just share with the board, i had my first orgasm's this weekend, ever with a man, 
my boyfriend. 2 times in one night and 1 in the other hehehee.
oh ok, but, first, u figure a guy should get off maybe first? because i know when i "get off", im tired and its like, you just keep going because u want them to "get off" and be happy and stuff, and be pleased.
So you guys got any tips on this kinda stuff? I don't know how guys do it LOL keep going that is, cause.. my bf does, even if he has came like 2 times, he keeps going untill i get him to stop!! 
Jamie
Congratulations! What position were you using? Did he also manually stimulate your clit at the same time?
Oh shit, i know!! but thank you so much for your response, i jsut didn't know what i should do, but.. like i've done.. YEARS with out coming, ever since i started having sex.. i've never had an orgasm EVER. so last weekend were the first times ive ever had an orgasm while having sex. but i know i feel its about the act as well. well if you love someone it is.
Jamie
Who gets off first really is NOT the issue. Depending on your age (and his age) and how much sex u have, can impact how long it takes ot have an orgasm.
As you grow older, you'll find that sex is more about the ACT then the cumming! The less you worry about the orgasm, and themore u relish the act love making..the better...trust me...the orgasm will take care of itself!
And, if u cum first, and you don't want him in you anymore..you can always perform oral sex to help him cum, or a handjob....in the same way, if he cums first, and you're still horney...he can masturbate you or finger you or use a toy on you!