hello,
my gf is very uncomfortable about letting people see her body, this has gotten to be a problem when i go down on her, she's too uncomfortable for pleasure and would pull me up before i have a chance to please her, does anyone have any advice?
thanks,
When I saw this, I though....I bet I know just the place to post it.
GONNA BE A BEAR IN MY NEXT LIFE
In this life I'm a woman. In my next life, Id like to come back as a bear. When you're a bear, you get to hibernate. You do nothing but sleep for six months. I could deal with that.
Before you hibernate, you're supposed to eat yourself stupid. I could deal with that too.
When you're a girl bear, you birth your children (who are the size of walnuts) while you're sleeping and wake to partially grown, cute, cuddly cubs. I could definitely deal with that.
If you're a mama bear, everyone knows you mean business. You swat anyone who bothers your cubs. If your cubs get out of line, you swat them too. I could deal with that.
If you're a bear, your mate EXPECTS you to wake up growling. He EXPECTS that you will have hairy legs and excess body fat.
Yup, gonna be a bear in the next life!
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it took me a LONG time, and with pretty much every person i gotta start over again.. making sure.. im OK..u know> it isnt bad shes just scared, she knows you love her but "deep down" lol she thinks you might not like her body or something or is just scared to show ANYONE. thats what it was for me i didnt want people to see my little chubby sides, or.. yuou know? its just little things we see as Flaws.. yet whos to really say they are.. but msp, is right compliments.. compliments. but do it while touching that area..
I used to be like that too but just kind of grew out of it with time. It also helps if you compliment her a LOT.
I would suggest you give it a little time and patience...
Tell her you love her body, and that she shouldn't be embarassed about it. If you make her feel good about herself, she might become more comfortable. Let her know how you feel about it, and try and ease her out of her shell...
That sucks dude, it's really hard to have fun in bed unless you can be comfortable. Just let her know all the time that you think she is beutiful, girls like to feel pretty and if you compliment them a lot it seems to have some amount of success.