Im a lil confused. First of all, she's really ticklish and says she doesnt like being tickled. Iv tried rubbing her feet but she just pulls away cuz she gets tickled, could it be she likes it and is just afraid of what might happne or do i just got my head in the clouds. I think shes exrta ticklishs because she has really soft skin and it probably causes extra sensativity. Im 16 and shes 17, so unless we park somewhere someone is usually watching us. We spend alot of time at her house cuz they have a den were we can watch movies without being too paranoid or nervouse of ppl watching us. We've been dating for close to 7 months and arnt very physical other than kissing but are very emotionally serious.
She's been massaging and scratching my back and i dont think she knows what it does to me when she scratchs my lower back.
Recently Iv let my hands do some exploring and have been fooling around wither her breast adn nipples. Again, anything we do is under the constraint of her parents being only a few rooms away adn the den doesnt havea a door to close. IM really serious about her so i dotn want to ruin things by getting to physical to quick. Pleaseing her breast is probly as far as i want to go till we get engaged or married, at least not go any farther for prolly till we both graduate. I get the feeling that she only lets me explore cuz i like it. I tried to be a good about it and told her that i would do it anymore unless she wanted em to or liked it but all she said was " i dotn mind" "it doesnt bother me" and "do u like it?" after a while i got her to get an unsure and more of just to shut me up " i like it". I dont wanna presure her. I read the parts on pleasing breast. I think she kinda wants to wait till we get really commited to do anythign else cuz iv asked to see them adn she said no and that i had to wait till we get married. i just agreed cuz i had told her that i wouldnt do anythign she didnt want me to do. DO U THINK SHED GET FREAKED OUT IF I TRIED THE WETTING MY FINGERS THING? Iv watched her face adn i cant see any change in expression when i rub her breast and nipples, they seemed to change between hard and soft though. im not sure if im doing it wrong or she doesnt like it. I know its more of a personal opinion. I JUST WANNA KNOW WHAT I CAN DO TO MAKE HER ENJOY IT AS MUCH AS ME OR IF IM JSUT NOT GONNA GET HER TO ENJOY IT. PleAe help? 
I'm sure she like it too, other wise she'll be very hesitant to let you touch her, probably she is just cautious about all those new feelings. Just give her some time.
I don't know about the ticklish thing... what about it?
[QUOTE=Quote ]First of all, she's really ticklish and says she doesnt like being tickled. Iv tried rubbing her feet but she just pulls away cuz she gets tickled, could it be she likes it and is just afraid of what might happne or do i just got my head in the clouds.[/QUOTE]
Are only her feet ticklish, or are other parts of her ticklish too? If we're just talking about feet, I don't see much reason to interprate that as nervousness. Many people have ticklish feet. If she doesn't want to be touched in certain places, even a place as seemingly inocent as the feet, you should not press the issue.
[QUOTE=Quote ]DO U THINK SHED GET FREAKED OUT IF I TRIED THE WETTING MY FINGERS THING? [/QUOTE]
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Could you explain?
[QUOTE=Quote ]Iv watched her face adn i cant see any change in expression when i rub her breast and nipples, they seemed to change between hard and soft though. im not sure if im doing it wrong or she doesnt like it. I know its more of a personal opinion. [/QUOTE]
Nipple hardness is not a very good indicator of how much she is enjoying something. Nipples get hard in response to cold, rubbing and many other things, regardless of whether or not the woman is aroused. In fact, for some women, myself included, the nipples do not seem to get hard in response to arousal in the first place. You will get a more useful response by asking her whether or not she is having fun.
[QUOTE=Quote ]I JUST WANNA KNOW WHAT I CAN DO TO MAKE HER ENJOY IT AS MUCH AS ME OR IF IM JSUT NOT GONNA GET HER TO ENJOY IT.[/QUOTE]
Instead of just trying to get her to like the things you like to do, why not ask her what she would like you to do to her?
Personally - I wouldnt go past the touching of her breast just yet, as in getting your fingers wet... only because since she is insecure about showing her her breasts, she most likley wouldnt want you doing anything farther than that. ACTUALLY - The BEST way to find out what she wants is to talk about it, it may seem difficult but its the best way to appraoch this. If you just try to talk about "moving on", and seeing what she'll let you do, she'll prolly respect the fact that you are asking instead if just jumping into it. Anyway I hope my input is helpful, and good luck with it man
Also - My Ex GF was very ticklish, and hated to be tickled... she said that she was just uncomfortabale with some1 else having control like that ( because she turned into jello when I Tickled her, she fell 2 the floor cuz she was majorly ticklish ) but i dont kno about ur gf, I cant help u with that...
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i'm really ticklish as well. My mum takes the piss because of that.
My feet tickle, my neck but my major weak spot are my sides of my body beneath the ribs. Even when people hug me normally, if they touch my sides with their fingers i pull back suddenly.
It only happens with fingers for some odd reason. Oh yeah, my arm pits too, but i don't think anyone's going near there lol!!!
well, i tried what yall said yesterday, but it didnt work. she pulled away and said she thought we were moving to fast. she said it wasnt me adn it wasnt that she didnt like it, she jsut thought we were moving to fast. i told her to show me when she was ready. i feel bad cuz i could tell somthign was wrong, i kinda feel like i rushed her or even pressured her. well, i guess thas the end of that. thanks for yalls help
I think she made it clear that she wants to wait to take your physical relationship any further. Just wait until that time comes or she tells you different. You have to respect her wishes or she'll probably move on.
my girl is very ticklish as well im talking bout the lightest tuch and she just get all squirmy and laghing, but somthing i noticed is that she is not ticklish when aroused actually the things that usually tickle her just turn her on more when she is turned on they stop tickling her and turn her on.
and the thing bout her not wanting to show u her breasts, yea she probably is insecure about her breasts so you need to talk to her bout that and see wassup cause alot of girls at our age are very insecure even if they are the most beautiful thing they still think somthing is wrong with themselves, so you really need to talk to her.
also from what i hear i think you two need to talk and comunicate more about anything sexual including that she turns you on when she scratches your back, or how she feels but her body and such
when my girl and i first started fooling around and i played with her breasts or sucked on them it wouldent do anything to her but when we spoke about it we realized it was because she was so nervous and was not even thinking bout that, she was worried that i wouldent like her breasts but after we talked about it and i played with them again and she wasent worreied bout anything any more and was able to just relax, well it turned her on like crazy and her eyes would role back and she would just moan, just from sucking on them.
so i think you guys need to talk more, and all thise questions that you have asked here ask her, and both of you need to be completly honest with your feeling bout sex and anything else. cause if you want too last for ever with her...u need to comunicate more.
sorry so long
A lot of people don't like being tickled it is not high on the list for people to do all the time or for people to enjoy. Also for the thing about the nipples.. yes i do think she likes it. Her nipples getting hard is either an example of coldness or getting turned on. Stop asking her all the time if it alright cuz obviously she says it is. Just do it and suprise her. Lean over... look into her eyes... kiss her passionatly then while doing so.. put one hand underneath her head and one hand under her shirt and on her stomach and osrta tickle her stomach with you fingers... this way you will know if she really want you to go farther or not cuz either she will pull away or not do anything at all.. and kiss her lightly when you go up her shirt and do it soft.
Then after some time... not right away cuz that would be like.... woooo slow down buddy.... eventually make you hands up to her breasts... and have fun why not do other things??? Unless you want to. But other things are fun. :P
Yeah always ask her cuz... you are just doing things and she is just going along so ask her what she would like to do next and if she is ready... doesn't mean you are gonna have sex. Me and my boyfriend do everything in the book besides sex... it is not that hard as everyone says it is:) Have fun little monkey man experiment ... be a teenager:)
JUST WAIT FOR HER THEN... THE TIME WILL COME... FOR NOW ON JUST KISS HER AND LOOK INTO HER EYES AND TEN TRY THE STUFF WE SAID.. HER TIME WILL COME... I WISH I WOULDA WAITED A LITTLE BIT LONGER... TO GET TO KNOW MY BOYFRIEND INSTEAD OF JUST PAYING ATTENTION TO EACH OTHERS BODIES AT FIRST ... INSTEAD OF OUR MINDS. YOU GOT A SMART AND INDEPENDENT GIRL... DON'T FAIL BUDDY LOL !
I'm only 14 and i've been going out with this girl for about a month. We've been great freinds for the last year or so and i feel very comfortable with her. We went camping with some other m8s about 3 days ago and we were sharing a tent. We were making out and she put my hand over her vaginal area (she was wearing clothes). At the time i thought she wanted me to finger her but i was shy and just didn't. Last night i asked her if she wanted me to finger her and she sed she wasn't bothered (she'd been fingered before but i was new to it) and she said "do u want to". I replied yes but to wait abit because i was nervous. Only then we were watching a film and as soon as her bro left the room to go to bed we kissed and I rubbed my hands over her chest. Finally i just went for it and slowly moved my hands down her skirt and fingered her. I didn't really know anythin about fingering her, only what i had heard from my mates who had read something in a magazine. So i had no idea what to really do but none the less i did. I don't know whether she enjoyed it and i can't gain the courage to ask. I think it would be betta now if i did it again, me having read some of these posts but im still unsure of where the clitoras is exactly.
Can anyone offer any advice on what i should do next. I haven't spoke to her yet and whenever i try and phone her this mornin i just can't seem to.
Sorry i didn't really paragraph.