Me And my girlfriend have been having sex for about a year now and the sex is great but she never like to have an orgasm , I want to please her to but she gets scared and want to stop or try's to make me finish as fast as she can. I asked why and she said she's scared of the feeling . Why?:confused: and what can I do ?
Thu, 01/11/2007 - 21:23
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She's scared of finishing . What do I do?
You just have to reassure her that it's natural and that an orgasm feels great. Just have to push her to do it.
Talk to her. Tell her that you have orgasms and there's nothing to fear just deep breaths and go with the feeling. Then -Give her an orgasm then wrap your arms her and give her a big bear hug - mmmm. I'll bet she'll want more after that.
And even if she doesn't have an orgasm, wrap your arms around her and give her the bear hug anyway.
i hav the same issue...i dont like the feeling before the orgasm becuz i shake like crazy n i dont like it n atfirst id stop him right before the end ...now its kinda become a reflex to move around n pull his hand away b4 finishing..its annoying n i wanna experience it!!
Then take a deep breath and RELAX. Let it go. Let the orgasm come.
whats with the bear hug??
A bear hug when you're bare is great!
[QUOTE=cyclefreak;163683]A bear hug when you're bare is great![/QUOTE]
ah you mean a naked bear hug yes that is even better I bet:rolleyes:
Yes, a naked bear hug is best, better than a hug with a naked bear, I'll bet. :eek:
A big bear hug is very comforting is you enjoy the guy or gal who is giving it.
please note: an actual live bear is not required
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;163864]A big bear hug is very comforting is you enjoy the guy or gal who is giving it.
please note: an actual live bear is not required[/QUOTE]
aha that settles it thank you evilevilkitten the case of the bear/bare/naked bare/naked bear hug rests