My girlfriend won't let me go down on her. She said it scares her. She has a phobia about insects crawling her her orifices.
I really want to lick her pussy, she sucks my cock all the time so i think it's only fair.
How can I reassure her in the beginning to make her more comfortable?
I've licked her butt hole before, & I went lower one time I licked the bottom half of her pussy. Maybe I could go closer & closer each time? What other things can i use to get her comfortable with it & go closer & closer to her pussy?
Then I'd worry that she's just letting me do it cos i sneaked there & it will be awful for her. I really want her to enjoy it though.
I see how wet she gets & I want to lick all the juices from the outside of her pussy, but I cant because i know it will scare her.
We, each of us, men and women, have certain limits with respect to sexual activity. Sometimes these change over the years and sometimes, not. I find it unusual that she allows anal play but not cunnillingus but we each have our own limits - not someone else'.
Talk it out; she may develop an acceptance but pushing it will only make it worse.
I find it strange too thats she likes anal play but not pussy licking.
Strange thing is, last night... we were texting each other & I said that she has to let me know when she's ready for me to lick her.
She texted back with "You can lick me wherever, whenever you want". This confused me greatly as I know pussy licking scares her.
Damn women are so confusing!!
All is ok. When she gets back from her holiday she wants me to lick her pussy. Brilliant :D