hey guys, well not long ago my gf and i disscussed going further(we are not ready to go the whole way yet) and she wanted to give me head. anyway when it came to crunch time we were making out on the bed and she unzipped my fly but instead started rubbing my penis up and down, which i hate to admit didnt give me much pleasure. anyway i was just wonedring some ways in which at the time, could help her realize i want her to go down, i didnt fell like asking her in case it sounded forceful. any ideas or positions when making out that could halp this, so she noes im ready, without being forceful. tahnks for ya help
Sat, 10/04/2003 - 14:04
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She won't go down on me
yeah well shes made it clear she doesnt want anyhting done to her, and shes had like 4 opportunities where she has gone down there but not given head, so is it something im doing wrong beacuase she has told me and others she wants to but when it comes to crunch time nothing happens. any ideas on what i could do b4 or at the time to let her no i want it, such as say 'do u wanna go down' or something. thanks
well if you guys already discussed it then im sure she knows that you want her to go down on you.
maybe when she unzipped your pants her full intention was to try it for the first time then maybe she got a little nervous or scared and opted just for the handjob.
just let her go at her own pace and dont force her or make her feel guilty b/c she isn't ready
also, if she and you are willing you could try going down on her first. then that might help her loosen up and be more eager to return the favor.