well ive been goin out with this girl now for around month and we plannnig on havin sex thsi sunday-i no for a fact its my first time but im not to sure about her.
ive asked her numours tiems and she says she aitn a virgin anymore, so ive just asked her questions about sex and what she likes-but to be honest she doesnt seem to sure and it seems the guy and place she done it with changes!
so i dont know if she is tellin the truth- most of you will think it wont make any difference if she is or not but to me it does becase if it is her first time like me she will be very nervous abotu it all!
does anyone know how i can actaully ask her without hmmm whats the word (probing about or sumit)
i do care for her very much and i just dont want it 2 go rong by finding out it is her first time and she doesnt enjoy it!
well msot of u will think im a muppet but fout thsi is the best palce to get advice as ive learnt alot already from skim reading articles.
minty
You will never know whether she is lying or not. Whatever she wants you to think, she'll say.
Between this and your other post, I have a bit of a picture of you. Some recommendations: Study English a little harder so your posts are understandable without work. 2. Instead of skimming the articles here, read them in detail. Do that instead of having sex this Sunday. You and your g/f can do that together and then masturbate because the pressures of sex are still beyond your tolerance.
If she says she isn't a virgin, then she isn't. If you feel you can't trust her then why would you even think of having sex with her?
Maybe since you say the guy and place etc. change, there has been more than one guy. Ever think about that? If it was her first time I think she'd tell you up front.
You are a nervous reck, think about something other than sex. You are young, sex shouldn't be your highest priority. Build a relationship, not a sexual climax.