My wife has the same problem but is usally during sex. She says I am to big and it hurts. Is this possiable as I always thought women liked bigger the better? Any help would be great for both of us.

do any of you girls get those painful but cramps? I get them sometimes in one of my buttcheeks when I'm on my back, with my legs up. I'll get my orgasm, tense up and get a charlie horse pain in my butt! owwww.

she needs to discuss with you a little more anyway, to tell you what hurts. Could need lube, could be the position, you could be hitting her in a painful spot, going too deep, etc.

Yea w/ me sometimes if I dont have enough lube or whatever the lips get a little sore.
The next day my arms and thighs are even sometimes a little sore, lol.
From holding myself up or weird positions, etc.
Can tell I need to work out more lol.

Can you be more specific about what gets sore?

Use a lubricant, like K-Y or Astroglide. That will help a lot. But don't use too much, just lil bit.

Slow down, a little more foreplay and a more relaxed sexual experience.

If this a "new" problem.

Would also request you ask a doctor... there may be something wrong.