Recently got my G/F a dildo and I surprised her with it while making love. We had been having intercourse for a while, and then I started going down on her again, and snuck some lube on it and slipped it in.
I am decent size (from what I have been told, 7 X 5.25) but definitely not huge.
I had sensed that she really likes size because of things she does while we make love...for instance alot of times she wants me to penetrate her without going down on her...I think she likes the tight feeling when she is not wet.
At first she was kind of surprised...but then she loved it. She came really fast and hard.
Here is the thing. The dildo is about 6.5 around and she didn't even blink or act like it hurt. I would think that is pretty damn big. I have asked her if she would like it again some time and she said "I would take it all day every day".
So I guess what I was wondering is if most women could handle this size no problem, or if my girl may be one of those "bigger is better" types... And not being huge myself I wonder about that???
I'm finding out my wife is a bit of a size queen and I'm rolling with it.
The addition of sex toys into a relationship should be used for the purpose of making sex even better, and if thats what makes it better for her then I'm all for it.
I'm below average size wise but I'm not the least bit worried about my wife leaving me for a guy with a bigger tool. She's getting everything she needs in the bedroom right now, its just a bit artificial.
I would say that if you are jealous of a sex toy then you shouldn't be using them
A lot of women like a bigger size and the best thing to do is just go with it as long as you are comfortable with it. On the other hand, there are a lot of women who would see something thats 6.5 inches around and run away screaming. Its just a matter of personal preference. If your wife is a size queen, more power to her!