Hi was wondering if any1 could share some views and shed some light as to what would be best thing to do here...
situation is i m going out with this girl its been like 4 months so well over that 'like each other stage' and we dont get to see each other that much at mo but like talk to each other literally every night without fail for hours. The thing is now it seems as though she cant or rather wont do things like show her emotions to me unless i do and she s said this!! i ve always been use to girls showing alot of forthright emotion in the past as this is usually the case.
i was wondering firstly if someone could give a reason as to why she is being like this as she s made it clear she has plenty of emotion she wants to tell me but cant unless i do sort of like 'get the ball rolling'. I was thinking could this maybe be her way of saying she wants to tell me she loves me but is waiting on me to tell her??
Also what would be good way to get her to initiate showing this emotion, obviously would be me just being forward and emotional but i really havent been use to being so emotional as a guy unless a girl just lets out her emotions to me!!
hope this makes sense and someone can share some insight!!
She's waiting for you to 'step up' and let her know where she stands with you. This is your chance to let her know what you want, etc. - so take it!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;163804]She's waiting for you to 'step up' and let her know where she stands with you. This is your chance to let her know what you want, etc. - so take it![/QUOTE]
ok thanks so u mean she s waiting for me to tell her how I FEEL so that she knows for certain about things before she proceeds in showing her emotions?
She may be waiting to hear how you feel. Many times women are conservative in initiating talking about their deep feelings ie: even saying love you, until there is a positive indicator from the man. Don't just throw all your heartfelt feelings out there right away, just tell her how you feel about her and see how she responds. See if she begins to open up emotionally, but encourage her to through showing some of your vulnerabilities first.
Yes. That is what I said.
[QUOTE=sera300;163912]She may be waiting to hear how you feel. Many times women are conservative in initiating talking about their deep feelings ie: even saying love you, until there is a positive indicator from the man. Don't just throw all your heartfelt feelings out there right away, just tell her how you feel about her and see how she responds. See if she begins to open up emotionally, but encourage her to through showing some of your vulnerabilities first.[/QUOTE]
ok thanks for this think i know what u mean
Snowman - quit stalling and get on with it.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;164020]Snowman - quit stalling and get on with it.[/QUOTE]
lol u mean as in open up to her evilkitten....