Me and my girlfriend have sex at least 5 days a week. Yesterday she said she had 5 orgasms, and I believe her, cause she went pretty crazy. But no matter how hard I try, I can't come. The only real way is if I masturbate while she licks my genitals. Other than that it seems impossible. I can do it by myself. I don't know what's wrong. Someone help! I want to please her more!
Tue, 02/27/2007 - 13:19
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She says amazing but I can't come
Look under the Sexual Health - Men forum...this is usually a common topic.. especially lately...should be some posts.. especially from Dancing Doc.
I dont know buddy. I kind of have a similar situation. It takes my boyfriend forever it seems to come. He eventually does but there is something weird about it. I am used to my ex husband lasting about 10 minutes tops. I am starting to suspect it may be because I dont have big boobs. Does that seem silly? I cant explain it but to me it is noticable. He has made several comments when he sees girls with big boobs. I know that is looked at normal, but I guess I never was with someone that expressed it so bluntly. I have never felt insecure about this. I am proportionate I think. Guess everyone has their fetish. What do you think? My only insecurity is that he is imagining someone imaginary with big boobs when he is with me. Is that normal? Do you have a fetish that may help you with your situation? I would suggest alternating oral sex with intercourse. Sometimes I think these situations are just temporary but if you are seriously bothered. I would not be afraid or imbarassed to go see a doctor if I were you. Everyone has a problem...believe me. :)
Maybe sex five times a week is too much for you. I know when my partner and I were trying to make a baby we had to have sex all the time. After awhile I had a hard time coming. If I have sex a little left often, it was always easier to cum...