My gf's period is 2 weeks late and she hasn't had any signs of her period. She said her breasts aren't even sore and they are always. I need some help I'm a college student stressing out. I now im not suppose to post here but I couldn't think of anywhere else that would be better to ask.
Mon, 04/16/2007 - 19:51
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Is she preg?
What did the pregnancy test show? And she did not do one for what reason?
This is about the only way to tell!
Here is a whole thread, same question:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/21312-is_she_pregnant-2.html
One test said Pos and another said Neg
Time to go see the doctor and have a blood test done. Don't wait, she needs to get seen ASAP.
Pregnancy test! get her to take it
The main, and usually the first, sign of pregnancy is the late period. You have contradictory tests and that is a BIG message to see the doctor. You are beyond Plan B so you two have some decisions to be made.
Im at college right now. I won't be back home until the first of may. I guess we will go to the doctor then if she hasn't started by then. Thank you for your advice.
She should really get to the doc ASAP, not in a few weeks. Having a false positive test is much less likely then a false negative; meaning the positive test is rarely a fluke. She should find out for certain, and if positive you both discuss it and go to the doc together when you get home.
If it is negative, then you both will have your minds put at ease.
The reason I am encouraging to find out for certain is; if it is positive the sooner you know the better. You both need time to decide if you want to have a baby, put the baby up for adoption, or if you want to terminate the pregnancy. If your decision is to terminate the pregnancy there are time limits to techniques. One technique is using medication (pills) RU-486 which are used up to about the 10 week mark. The other is a surgical (invasive) method used up to generally 12 weeks.
As it stands, if it's positive she is about 6-7 weeks and then adding the additional weeks she may miss a window of opportunity.
Regardless, when you see her you both need to have a serious talk about what you want to do and it takes time to come to a clear decision. I am not trying to be pushy, I am just concerned.
She would rather go with me but I can't go back till then.
I know what you are meaning. We have already talked about what are options are. We have decided that if she is preg. we are going to go through with it. We don't see the reason for an abortion if that was the case we should had thought about that before we did anything and got into this position. If she is I'm going to withdraw from my university and go to a community college back home. I know a guy back home that will give me a good job that pays really good.
Understood, I wish you both the best :)
Thank you for your concern. Im not the regular college guy that people here about. I'm alot more mature than most. I don't go out to ever party that there is and I have quit drinking and I am a very faithful BF.
Sounds as if you have a good head on your shoulders & you have a plan. Let us know how you make out when you find out.
We had planned on getting married when I graduated college but I guess I will have to postpone my college career for a while. I can still get the job I wanted to do with my degree but it isn't as easy to get it. I will post any new information when I get it. I appreciate your advise and concern. I just really needed someone to talk to. thank you
On a side note; many colleges have adult education programs and are tailoring curriculum to those who have other obligations. Meaning, the adult student has many options. On-line, distance learning, is always an option. Many have full time jobs & families. The majority I am finishing my Master's with (on-line) have a family & full time jobs--keep the education in the plan even if it's on a slower track.
I am planning on taking courses at community college that will transfer back to my degree. Then when my gf finishes here 3 month schooling for dental assisting. I am going to start working and build a little stability so I can support a kid. I am living off my dad right now and I don't want to do that when I have a kid. We will eventually move back to may college to finish up my degree.
wow all this planning and you don't even know for sure. at least you have a sensible plan....if you're lucky this time.... next time do the sensible planning before hand and be safe!! good luck!
I have always been one to be ahead of the game and always be prepared for the worse. Im not afraid to except the consequences for my actions.
Kinda related??
When me and my gf were having sex with the condom on, we noticed that there is very little blood on her sheets. Her period came 2 weeks ago, and she's constantly on the pill.
Anybody know what could it be? She seems a bit nervous
[quote=Mr_EK;175701]Kinda related??
When me and my gf were having sex with the condom on, we noticed that there is very little blood on her sheets. Her period came 2 weeks ago, and she's constantly on the pill.
Anybody know what could it be? She seems a bit nervous[/quote]
There are times when slight bleeding can happen even when on the pill. The misconception is you get your period and then it's over for the month but in fact there are months when it just starts a little again. It's generally very light and it's not uncommon to begin after sex. It's breakthrough bleeding.
This is assuming that during sex you did not irritate her nor cause pain.
my gf has not had any signs of a period. She hasn't been bleeding at all.
??? I thought you just said there was a little blood on the sheets.
I have had breakthrough bleeding before... and there aren't any "period" signs b/c its not your period... it's just a little blood inbetween period times.
Are you saying now she is due for her period but nothing has happened yet?
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;175964]??? I thought you just said there was a little blood on the sheets.
I have had breakthrough bleeding before... and there aren't any "period" signs b/c its not your period... it's just a little blood inbetween period times.
Are you saying now she is due for her period but nothing has happened yet?[/QUOTE]
That was mr EK that said that there was blood not me.
Doh lol my bad
Always throws me off when people start asking other questions attached to someone elses thread lol
Ok so another week has passed and still no signs of her period. Did she ever take any more pregnancy tests?? or finally go to the DR?
I know she wanted to wait for you....but still....
she took another test and it was pos so i don't know. I have 1 more week until I can go home. Its driving me crazy having to be away from during this.
I'll be alright.
Well if it was 2 out of 3 positive... then it's most likely that she is =\.
Just hang in there!