My girlfriend and i have been going out for a while now and she likes it when i 'finger' her. I have a pretty good technique and she says it feels incredible. But when i get going and she looks like she's enjoying herself after a while she'll ask me to stop, i always do of coarse. I have asked her why and she says its because it feels so incredible she doesn't know whats going on and feels she might pass out! is this possible?
i was thinking perhaps she was getting close to ejaculating and know this can feel like the urge to pee for women - could this be why she wants me to stop each time?? Because understandably it would be embarrassing if she felt she was going to pee while we were doing stuff.
Tue, 06/13/2006 - 23:47
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She makes me stop...
Maybe she is just reaching an orgasm and isn't sure what to expect. Has she ever orgasmed? Can she do this on her own?
Few women are actually able to ejaculate. Has she even mentioned the urge to pee?
She has orgasmed before and so i feel she does know what to expect, they have just been clitoral orgasms however and so this may be the reason. She hasn't mentioned the urge to pee, but i feel this may be because she is too embarrassed. She often goes to the toilet afterwards though.
Whats the verdict? thanks for the super quick reply!
My ex told me to stop because she said it felt like she had to go pee. She said it felt really good, and I told her that I read that it feels like you have to pee but yeah, I told her it would be okay, but I did stop.
as if this doesnt get said enough... TALK TO HER!!!! noone here is going to have the foggiest idea of what is going on with your girl so ask her it sounds like your on the right path but who knows. as for the going to the bathroom thing right after as ive heard it most women dont enjoy the sensation of wetness running down their leg.
[QUOTE=i<3karma] noone here is going to have the foggiest idea of what is going on with your girl so ask her it sounds like your on the right path but who knows. [/QUOTE]
Well, I know, because he most likely read one of my posts on the matter.
[QUOTE=DrunknMunky] i was thinking perhaps she was getting close to ejaculating and know this can feel like the urge to pee for women - could this be why she wants me to stop each time?? Because understandably it would be embarrassing if she felt she was going to pee while we were doing stuff.
She hasn't mentioned the urge to pee, but i feel this may be because she is too embarrassed. She often goes to the toilet afterwards though. [/QUOTE]
If you did get this information from one of my posts, then you have misinterpreted the information.
The information I conveyed stated that for girls/women (and boys, also) who are first learning to have orgasms and are writing to complain that they are failing because of a perceived need to stop short, very often the reason is because their nervous system is sending out a signal for an urge to pee immediately prior to reaching the trigger point of an orgasm. This is a false signal and should be ignored, especially if she knows her bladder is empty.
The trick to attaining an orgasm is to ignore the signal and to push right on thru that urge. Her orgasm will be waiting on the other side. After experiencing a few orgasms, these false messages will go away. So, it is not that she will pee if the arousal and stimulation continue to build, only that she is having an urge to that is erroneous.
Of course many of us have a need to visit the restroom after making love, and this is an altogether different urge that is real.
I hope this clarifies the matter.