I've been dating a wonderful girl for a year now, but she has very little desire for sex. (We are both in our early 30's) Once every couple of months is it. We see each other every week, and have what I feel is a very warm and intimate relationship. We kiss and cuddle, masssage and fondle, but it ends there most of the time. I'm raring to go, and she's falling asleep.....
She claims its the medication for depression and a blood thinner that totally sap her energy and desire for sex. I have no reason to doubt this, but what can be done? I feel she's being cheated out of enjoying her sex life....I'd do anything for her pleasure, but she doesn't want anything done!
I've heard about testostorne therapy for women, anyone have some facts?
Thanks
Sat, 12/29/2007 - 03:17
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She has low libido (medication induced...)
Best choice is if she has depression is ask for her to ask her doc to change her med. She needs to explain to the doc what the anti-depressant is doing and her reaction first. Testosterone? Get the antidepressant changed first.
sera, yah beat me to it...
[quote=hollywood807;203706]sera, yah beat me to it...[/quote]...No, Just read it first, LOL! :)
DONT EVEN TRY TO MESS WITH HORMONES....especially if she is on anti-depressants...because brain chemicals and body chemicals are a lot of tricky and dangerous business....believe me I know...
The antidepressants are more than likely the culprit for the low sex drive...and coming from someone who had a very high libido, extra testosterone wont raise it...if anything shell grow a mustache
Have her talk to the doc...maybe try out a different dosage...or whole other brand...welbutrin tends to have minimal side affects...It shot mine up to like wanting it 15 times a day to 20...and then down to 10....lol