i bought my girlfriend a small 4x1 vibrator for xmas. it was grate fun the 1st or 2nd time but now if i insert it inside her and turn it on she says she gets the feeling of having to go #2. this feeling is so irritating to her that she tells me to stop. iv tryed going at diff angles or not going vary far or fast or eveything. i cant seem to figure out whats goin on? is this a normal feeling? how can i possibly make it go away? she gets the feeling even if she trys so i dont think its just me. help is appreciated
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ShadowMan
Wait wait wait, just so were on the same page, she feels like she has to deficate? I mean I have heard of the feeling like you have to pee but she feels like she is going to defecate?
thats what she tells me, and i had the same reaction as you. but im thinkin the vibrations might make her backdoor mussles relax or somethin? thats what i got from it. she only gets thoes feelings if i turn it on
That would make sense, like maybe its too powerful, so its relaxing the msucles...haha you may have answered your own question haah
Ducy, that is crap.
Look at a side, cutaway diagram of the female reproductive system. The vagina can rest on the rectum. If there is anything in there, anything inserted into the vagina will make a woman more aware. If the thing vibrates, that will really make us aware.
She doesn't like; don't use it.
I have used vibes that are penis shaped but I do not like them inserted... it just starts to numb things down there and does nothing for me really.
I just use them on my clit.
Yeah something sounds a little fishy to me as well - I don't think you're getting the whole story from her end.
Just ask her if she likes it or not, probably not so you can stop it. Just be honest with each other
She could try to go to the bathroom before your playtime. Also, try turning the vibrations on a lower setting.