When me & my girlfriend have sex she always gets sore quite quickly.
We start off stroking each other & then i finger her to make her cum. Well, she likes it when i bang her with my thumb. I pound her quite hard as she asks for. Then we move onto sex & it happens after about 20mins. We usually start off with me on top, then she goes on top, then we do it doggy & then back to me on top which is where she tells me she's sore & she needs to me hurry up.
She's always very wet when we're doing it & she doesn't dry up so what is it that's making her sore?
Sometimes she wants it again after we & go about 5 times right after each other, in which case she's almost limping the next day lol.
But seriously, i've never experienced this before. Other girls i've been with can keep going for as long as i can. Ideally it would go on for about half an hour/40mins (from penetration).
Is there anything i can do?
We dont do much foreplay apart from me fingering her. She doesnt seem up for that kind of thing, which is a bit of a bummer but oh well.
She's told me I'm quite large but with the wetness how can this be so much of a problem?
Sirene:
Despite her being wet, you may be irritating the skin/tissue. It's not big deal and usually heals up w/in a day. If you are changing positions and a bit forceful it's not that she is not turned on, it's just causing irritation. If you are more gentle, you may find it's not an issue. Nothing you can really do about it just listen to what she is telling you, if you need to take it a bit more easy. With multiple go arounds, sometimes it makes it uncomfortable to walk, but that too subsides!
She doesn't like me being gentle, she says she loves it when I ram her really hard. We start off slow, but then we get rough.
I knew it wasnt the case of her not being turned on, we talk about sex all the time. I just wish we could go for longer without her getting sore.
Nothing you can do about it. I know when I've gotten into the rougher, I tend to get irritated and a bit swollen, puffy. It never hurt, I was always turned on but there is only so much you can take before it has to heal up! My ex & I would have long sessions for hours and if he moved around a lot, I would end up sore especially after the second or third go at it. But once I hit the point of too sore, it was time for a break! Never found a way around it...
Damn. Ah well.
Thanks anyway