yesterday my girl fingered me! She told me that she thinks her fingers in my butt is sexy. i was completely shock when is did it!! No women has ever done that to me! (honestly it didn't do much for me anyway), but it drove me wife nuts! I kept asking her why she thought it was sexy, but all she just kept on saying was that is was sexy. Can one of you gals explain this better? why would this be such a turn on for a girl? should i get her a toy YiKeS! pic of me last night-->:eek:
Tue, 07/25/2006 - 18:38
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She Fingered Me?!?!
ah ok well thats fixed then
Maybe women have some sort of instinct about male prostate stimulation.
some women get it in their head that it feels good for us. Just like some guys get it in their head that the clit should be battering rammed.
How long have you been married?
hm first he called her his girl then his wife I am confused but yes anal stimulation can be great
[QUOTE=Newtolove]hm first he called her his girl then his wife I am confused but yes anal stimulation can be great[/QUOTE]
Uhhhhhhh he said it drove his wife nuts...don't blame her do you??:eek: ..She found out the dudes GIRLFRIEND fingered "him"...:D :D
well for me i do not like the anal and my girl wouldn't give me the anal.. thank holy for that... i dont know bout u guys we all have dif opinions
we do have different opinions and it seems the topic started opinion of his compagnion changes in one sentence from girl(friend) to wife
sorry, it's the same person. i call my wife, my girl, boo, sweetie, etc..
[QUOTE=sheismyoasis]yesterday my girl fingered me! She told me that she thinks her fingers in my butt is sexy. i was completely shock when is did it!! ... Can one of you gals explain this better? why would this be such a turn on for a girl? should i get her a toy YiKeS! pic of me last night-->:eek:[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure I can explain WHY it's such a turn on, but believe me it is.
I guess it's the closest we can get with you to the feeling you get from being inside pussy. Soft skin, warm and tight around the fingers, actually being inside your body, however you feel about it, etc.
I know I did the same thing to my hubby on our wedding night and he reacted in about the same way.-->:eek:
He was probably even more shocked because he was watching TV when I snuck up on him with the lube *evil grin*
yeah, i though that would be the reason why. Since then she hasn't done it. I guess this whole thing just tripped me out because she is def not into anal at all. i wonder why see would do this?
[QUOTE=Doug's]I'm not sure I can explain WHY it's such a turn on, but believe me it is.
I guess it's the closest we can get with you to the feeling you get from being inside pussy. Soft skin, warm and tight around the fingers, actually being inside your body, however you feel about it, etc.
I know I did the same thing to my hubby on our wedding night and he reacted in about the same way.-->:eek:
He was probably even more shocked because he was watching TV when I snuck up on him with the lube *evil grin*[/QUOTE]
So you fingered your husband's @ss on your wedding night?!?! :confused:
I guess I need to get out more. :D
My lover loves being fingered, it happens almost all the time now. :D I think it's fun, and it totally shows me why a guy would want to have anal sex with a girl.
OK, I am extremely sexual and I don't want to scare off my boyfriend by sneaking up on him "anally" especially since he was a virgin when we met. I don't want to damage him mentally for life. I have been slowly working my way there. I started w oral and sucking on his balls. I have recently went down further to his chode, licking and sucking.... I only wanna do it to make him feel good though.
> So you fingered your husband's @ss on your wedding night?!?!
> I guess I need to get out more.
Maybe they are ol' hands with new bodies to explore. Having fewer inhibitions the second time around might explain it.
Pheonix_, there are some likings and not on this thread. I for one enjoy anal stimulation to include the prostate, yet do not want to have anal intercourse with anybody.
Rain3, Take your time with him. There can be some enjoyable payoffs in the end for both of you. The anus is richly endowed with sensitive nerve endings that become reactive in both men and women after we become very turned on. Of course the outside can be fingered or tongued (rimmed) at any time, as part of the teasing for what is to come later; however, waiting until we are nearing an orgasm is the best time to involve the anus--and the prostate for men.
The male and female anus and the male prostate gland contribute in an ancillary manner to what we are enjoying at the time from other caresses. In other words they augment what else is happening. If this is not enough, consider that stimulating a person this way will help trigger an illusive orgasm such as might happen during a multiple string. So, there is much to recommend from all this. It goes without saying to make sure that the person on the receiving end has bathed and has gone to the bathroom recently.
Although initial early contact with the outside of the anus can be done with a dry finger, anything more involved should be done with a lubricated finger. Use plenty of lubrication if either of you are going in alongside the sphincters. Use pressure to go inside and then only go slowly. Never push or shove or jab. If there is any discomfort, stop immediately and add more lube to the affected area.
As for him, with you, you will find the prostate about two inches inside along the front wall. It will feel like as walnut shaped protuberence. It can be rubbed and massaged when he is about to climax as well as during his orgasm. As mentioned, involving it and anal stimulation have the most effect when accompanied with other forms of caresses.
If you are taking the lead with this and he does not recriprocate soon after you have your fun with him, and you want him to, then you might just dab a little lube on his finger and place it where you want it.
My wife has never done this , though I dont think it would bother me if she did. Not to be crude, but the size of her finger does not scare me. I dont think I would get off on it, but, If she wanted to do it, and it turned her on, I would let her. I guess most men would equate this type of play with " gay " tendencies,and therefore be hesitant to let her try, but Im sure my wife knows im not gay.
the woman i'm currently dating has talked with me about this subject... fingering and licking analy... she even mentioned using a strap on .... i'm not sure i would like that verry much but if i tried it and liked it would that mean i have homosexual tendancies????? (no i have not tried it)
[QUOTE=nightphreak]i'm not sure i would like that verry much but if i tried it and liked it would that mean i have homosexual tendancies????? (no i have not tried it)[/QUOTE]
You could make a case for or against that. In the end, though, it doesn't matter a bit.
I got my ass fingered on the weekend. We were laying in bed at 3am, we just got in from a heavy drinking session & we were both really drunk. I laid their naked on my front & she moved her hand across & started fingering my ass. I started to moan & she did it more enthusiasticly. I really liked it.
In the morning when we were about to eat I said "You washed your hands after last nights adventure didnt you"? she said, "yeah, oh why?" I said, "you fingered my ass", she replied with "Oh my god, I cant believe i did that, I thought I did it in my dream". I said to her "Don't limit that to just being drunk, I liked it". So I suspect I'm going to get my ass finger ****ed more often now :D
We're you guys having cornflakes or coco puffs??
[QUOTE=fire1041]I dont think I would get off on it, but, If she wanted to do it, and it turned her on, I would let her. I guess most men would equate this type of play with " gay " tendencies,and therefore be hesitant to let her try, but Im sure my wife knows im not gay.[/QUOTE]
The outside of an anus and inside along the sphincters are richly endowed with many sensitive nerve endings that become reactive after we become very highly aroused. Most individuals (male and female) do not get off as a result of fingering or dildo play. What happens is that the stimulation of these nerves as well as those of the prostate work in conjunction with what we are feeling and experiencing from other forms of caresses going on at the same time. In other words, fingering the anus and the prostate greatly enhances our pleasure. In addition, massaging the prostate helps to trigger an orgasm that is being illusive.
I believe it is incorrect to conclude that "most men would equate this...with gay tendencies". Most of us know and understand that being Gay is based upon having a preference for and being able to become attracted to members of the same gender. Gay or Gay tendencies has little or nothing to do with sexual play and practices that any one of us can partake and enjoy.
[QUOTE=nightphreak]the woman i'm currently dating has talked with me about this subject... fingering and licking analy... she even mentioned using a strap on .... i'm not sure i would like that verry much but if i tried it and liked it would that mean i have homosexual tendancies????? (no i have not tried it)[/QUOTE]
Asked and answered in the previous post.
As for doing it, I believe it is best to begin with a finger and later if the mood strikes, to use a dildo of some type. Many people's interest is limited to just using a finger. The finger can stay just to the outside of the anus, can also go inside up to the first knuckle, or with guys, proceed on it in order to massage the prostate. Whatever the interest is.
Penetration should be gentle and the object to be inserted must be liberally lubricated. It is best to use pressure to go inside rather than to shove, poke, or jab. The outside can be fingered anytime, although, I would wait until the person is really really turned on before going further.
some times when i jerk off i put my own finger in my ass ,it gives a v.good feeling and i dont know why it makes me cum quickly while my finger is inside i feel if it sucked inside more and more,i dunnu y??
Thats not a turn on to me...but I guess theres a first time for everything!
[QUOTE=Luvs2plzU;151627]We're you guys having cornflakes or coco puffs??[/QUOTE]
lol, neither. Sausage, egg & beans sandwiches. Really good after a heavy drinking session.
[QUOTE=Sirene;152749]lol, neither. Sausage, egg & beans sandwiches. Really good after a heavy drinking session.[/QUOTE]
I advise her to avoid your @ss after that meal.
lol! I do too. Don't wanna make the same mess to her fingers as I do to the toilet.