when I first started having sex 4 years ago (when I was 17) I never said a thing. Now of course I can't help but make noise when I am enjoying it. I like to moan, say his name, whatever, as long as he likes it too.. as was the case with me, it may just take her awhile to get comfortable with you.

This topic was merged with the existing topic "Sounds of Pleasure".

I have started to have a more sexual relationship with my girlfriend, and we have done it all. I was wondering though if she really enjoys what i do to her.

I was performing cunnilingus for quite a while, and her back was arching and her hands were holding my head close to her "femininity" (all good signs i've heard) but she doesn't make any noise. I ask her if it feels good and if she likes it, and she said yes. Could it just be that she doesnt make noise full stop? She is quite quiet normally.

p.s. Im new but am hoping to post here on a more regular basis, so hey everyone.

This is normal, it took me awile for me to start making noises, just tell her that you would enjoy it a lot more if she would make some kind of noices, then next time you have sex with her, you make noises and hopefully she will follow your path.

Eddie, if you've just recently started to have a more sexual relationship, it could be that your g/f is still a little timid and not quite ready to "let go." If she says it feels good, you have no other basis to go by. You could, however, ask her if there is anything that you can do to make it feel BETTER.

Many ppl are not used to "let it go" loud...especialy if they are quiet new in sex,so if she sais it is good,try to make it better

it's normal...it took me awhile to make any noise doing anything, i think i started after i hear a guy do it first

I neva use 2 make noises wen i 1st started having sex aswel bt i think tht may have been becuse of the postions. Me sittin on my b/f is really really enjoyable 4 both of u n u cant help by makin noises otha wise ud jus explode.

to all the girls out there ... don't be shy, when your man hears you enjoying it, it is a great turn-on for him too!

I'm with hearandnow. I can remember the first time each of the women that I've been with uttered a word or a moan. It is an incredible turn-on, but also gives your man a verbal queue of when to speed up or slow down. I'll often listen and watch my wife when I'm fingering or going down on her. I like to have her come close to climax, but not quite there and then slowly bring her back thru the cycle. She has very intense orgasms with this method and much of it is due to the verbal queues. Without them, it can be difficult to tell if she's loving it or if she's in pain.

'course, you risk her calling out an old boyfriend's name

Some girls are very shy about making noises, some others are realy loud, i guess it's normal for your girl to be quiet.

haha for me its the other way around tho my boyfriend doesn't make noise at all and i do

I've known men who WON'T moan or much less breathe during sex.
With some of them,what worked was, telling them that I was going to stop unless they at least breathed or something just as they were about to climax. It worked. LOL

It takes some opening up. Way before I even started moaning in bed, I used to think "What if I sound stupid?" LOL

Not anymore. Moan on!

*Al Getz EXciTeD!!*
me and my bf are only 16, and we're not really on our own that much to have sex, y'know, we have to be really quiet when there's other ppl in the house to avoid embarassment on anyones behalf, but the other night we were home alone... and had some of the best sex EVER! (well, so far at least).
It was really spontaneous, and we were as loud as we could be, i bet u could hear me screaming from the end of the street... it was amazing... *sits n reminisces for a while*
yeah anyways it was cool.
seeya

my girlfreind didnt make any noise when we first had sex but i know she enjoyed it because she wants to like do itall the time now ( as much as we can anyways )

Moaning isn't something that is staged. It comes naturally and I think has a lot to do with breathing. No noise doesn't at all mean no enjoyment. Being that I live in a dorm with paper thin walls I have to contain myself and have trained myself to be pretty quiet while having sex. If a woman enjoys sex you'll know from cues that aren't vocal.

Some people just won't make noise during sex or foreplay.

if a woman is too vocal she is faking!

ya she will open up with time. If my gf isn't i know i'm not doing somthing right. screaming is also a big turn on.