for the past month or so, my girlfriend has tried giving me handjobs and oral and he feels really good. but for some reason, she cant get me to cum but she could do it 2 months ago. one time she was doing it for over 20 minutes and still couldnt make me ejaculate. but when i did it i finished in less than a minute. what could we going on that she cant get me to ejaculate anymore?
Tue, 07/10/2007 - 18:43
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she cant get me to ejculate
well has she changed how she does it compared to 2 months ago ?
You seem to be blaming her. Your orgasm is your orgasm for which you are responsible.
It is interesting how young men here take credit for their g/f's orgasms but blame their g/f for not having orgasms themselves.
could it be that you expect it to happen so easily that you don't try hard enough yes you have to work at it too
Don't make it your goal to have an orgasm. Just enjoy sex. And yea don't blame your girlfriend, you put too much pressure on her and youll both suffer.