My girlfriend and i are away at college so we see each other about every two weeks. When we first has sex upon seeing each other she says it feels really good. But, herein lies my questions.... she says after the first time, most of the time she doesn't really feel anything at all. is this because she loosens up and after wards im not "big" enough? why might this be? can any any women shed some light on this?
Fri, 01/30/2009 - 02:16
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she cant feel anything? help
maybe she only enjoys pain? probably she needs practice with kegels or something but if its pain then you've got some work to do.
The semen you leave behind can be acting as a lubricant. She may be numb from the first time with insufficient recovery time.
Try this: after entering her from on top, have her close her legs and you place your legs outside hers. This increases pressure for each of you and causes the penis to rub directly over her clitoris. The try different positions.
It is NOT that she's too big or you're too small - it is that you aren't wielding yourself correctly.
1st find her G-Spot with your fingers, then use that knowledge to guide the head of your penis onto her G-Spot, thinking upwards, then caress it with your glans. Small movements here - you're not so much as 'thrusting' and you will not 'go deep'. Just remember this far for her G-Spot and this far for her anterior fornix -which is also up but further in than her G-Spot.
2nd slide below her cervix and think down to reach her posterior fornix. This time you will 'go deep' but once again it is a matter of small caressing movements and not thrusting.
The thrusting is for you more than it is for her.
Once again reading and following the stucky post The Program will help you.