Hi I'm sorta asking thsi question for my girlfriend, and myself I geuss.
I would like it if she shaved just because I like the feel of the smooth skin and I prefer shaved alot when I'm giving oral.
But when my girlfriend tries to shave herself she says it really hurts, and afterwards she gets those small red shaving bumps or w.e they are.
I was just wondering if she is doing something wrong or if there is away to do it that won't hurt and that won't give her those red bumps.
And please don't get the idea that I ask her to shave it even though it hurts lol. She has never tried to shave before and as soon as she told me it hurts I told her not to do it.
Also I was wondering if anyone had an experiance with hair removal cremes/gels, I thought that something like "nads" would be a good alternative to shaving if the shaving hurts her and theres nothing we can do about it.
But I am concerned about the safety of these products.
I know she would prefer waxing as she has done it in the past and was fine with that, but we live in a rural area where she can;t get regularly waxed.
So that is out of the question for now.
Can she wax it herself?
Well George, let me firstly ask you this: will you be willing to shave yourself for her?
I actually shave myself for my partner's sake, she enjoys it and I am benifiting from it, and I remember the rash I got the first time I shaved. It was painfull at first as well, but your body gets used to it soon. She could have got the rash from using a blunt razor, that happens often, even when you shave your beard. I also suggest that she uses a shaving cream aimed at woman. Those creams are friendly down there and will make the whole excercise a lot smoother. If it doesn't get better after a while, waxing might be a consideration.
Remember, use a sharp razor and descent cream and the problem will become pleasant soon enough.
#1 Yes I would shave myself for her but she doesn't want me to.
#2 Did you even read my post? Waxing is not an option.
#3 Ya I think the problem might have been the razor she was using and maybe she should trying going with the grain.
Thz for yur help
I agree. DO NOT continue to use a blade that has become dull. Replace the blade as often as necessary! In addition, shave with the grain of the hair.
Another approach would be to just trim the hair short instead.
One problem that people talk about is what happens several days after shaving--the itching that accompanies new hair growth.
Just go and get it waxed! it is so much easier! and the pain isnt bad at all!