well i know it is fun to remonise so hey lets share... what was your first time like... were you nervous... maybe it wasn't your first... maybe you had sex years ago and well it really seemed like your first... or you wanted it to be... maybe telling others how ... well not horrid i hope it was.. they won't be as much as a nervous reck as we all were.
Fri, 07/07/2006 - 05:24
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share your first
My 'offical' first time was so crap i didnt consider it my first time. I really consider the first time with my proper g/f my first time. My first time, i was on holiday in europe drinking alot and in clubs. I was on such a high. My friend drove past me in a cab with two girl that were on our plane. We went back to our hotel and were playing cards, then things got a little hazzy (the drink) the lights were off and i was kissing her in my bed. She had a b/f bt i pursuaded her to give in, the old "time zone" line. I started off with my hands then next thing i know i was having sex. I kept going up and down (erection) im guessing the drink again. After i had finished i just left the room, and how horrible it may sound, got rid of the girl and ingnored her the rest of the holiday.
With my g/f, i had been dating her for a few months. Then when we became 'offical' we started getting more intimate. She came round my house one day to watch a film. We were just lying in my bed watch the film, then next thing i knew we were kissing. I climbing on top of her kissing became faster and more passionate. I removed my tshirt and she took her top off. We were kissing for a while then i took off her and my clothes, leaving just myself in my boxers. My hands explored her body touching her where she liked it the most. I took off my boxers and the rest pretty much explains itself. We went twice more after i must boast ;)
Alot of peoples first times arent how they pictured. I guess your 'first time' also has alot of emotional tied rather then just physical. :D
I think I have to start with my first GREAT kiss and go on from there...
My first one was a friend of mine. We celebrated her birthday in a bar, we were talking about something, speaking directly in eachothers ears in the noisy environment. We had had some drinks. Can you imagine, as there was a pause in the conversation we sort of leaned to eachother. For some reason I kissed her neck as we were there leaning, almost hugging. I felt her kissing my neck. Slowly I kissed my way to her earlobe. We paused for a moment, cheek to cheek, feelings rushing, not sure what to do, not sure how to react. I pulled away to look in her eyes. She was scanning my eyes, left, right, left, right, and I could see in her face this was what she wanted so I moved closer and closer, the anticipation growing stronger and stronger. And finally as our lips brushed together it was like electricity rushing through our bodies. We started to make out there right in front of our friend, (who had a crush on her), and we didn't even see him leaving. We were so focused on eachother, it was like the whole world had dissappeared.
Later we left the bar and drove to her place with our bikes. (She hit a curb and fell down, that's how much we had had at that time.) When we got inside we started to remove eachothers clothes, kissing all the time, touching all the time. When we fell on her bed, naked, we continued to make out, and to my great surprise, I couldn't get it up. I don't know if it was the alcohol or the excitement. I gave her oral and made her cum a couple of times. Then we fell asleep (or passed out). The next morning I was working much better and we had sex (again?). We were a little hungover so I have to say it was not the best experience of my life. We stayed together for two weeks or so, having better and better sex. What finally ended the relationship was the reason that she was "kinda in a LDR" and felt guilty after each time we had sex.
She never moved back to her boyfriend and our friendship was ruined. We still could talk with no hard feelings but we were not that close anymore.
well i believe everyones first time should be magical whn they look bakc and remember it... it just raises buterflys... that not how it really is all the time but for me it was... it wasn't something that just happened suddenly... we had been dating for a month and fianly we go to leave center for a weekend... it took us about 3 to 4 hours just to drive there and it took us about 5 more just to get to know where we were sleeping. my bf was so nervous... he was 7 years older then me and he had taken a girls virginity before he had said but when it came down to it ... when it came down to me... it just twisted his stomach in a knot. well he was drinking... not drunk but close to it... finally we got to were we were going (in a camper in our friends bakcyard) i was so scared and stiff and shaking the whole way there... i was thinking about it all night... i wan't really sure if i could go through with it all.
we got into the camperand emidiatly i sat on the very EDGE of the bed... furthest from him... he scooted closer to me and started taking his shoes off very innocently and then looked at me... i gave a nervous smile and slide off my sandles. He could tell i was nervous so he cuped my chin in his hand and deeply kissed me, then just looked at me for a while and whispered, i won't hurt you. (he said this for a simple fact of what men did to me in the past) and he kissed me again and wraped his arms around me and lifted me ontop of him as he laid down... still kissing. then he rolled overplacing me beneath him. i was so nervous so hot already just by the feel of his lips i melted.
He reached over and turned the light off but i could still see slightly from the light in the restroom. He reached down to me and i felt his hands begin to travle there way around my body. he leaned down and kissed me as he reached below my bra and began to fondl my breast... the pleasure made me gasp. he broke the kiss and took my shirt off and then his. then he went for my pants and then his own... leaving on only his boxers. he ran his hands down m body and i shivered in pure enjoyment. he leaned into my ear and nibbled it... "your beautiful" and he began to explore my body with his mouthfirst my ear and then my neck and breats and further down... taking no hurry. As soon as i came he lifted himself again to me and kissed me... "are you ready" he spoke softly as he put his penis just between my lips... he held me tight as a made a little moan in reply. he eased it in lightly at first and burrowed it in i felt felt the rushing pain for a second before it all turned to pleasure... i could only keep myself quiet for the first few seconds until i let out moan after groan. i was in heaven. he slowly rocked me and then faster and faster he went .... well
i think you all get the picture now... i consider my first time what happened before ... not suring really... cause once you get started then your all good ya know... its how you ease into it.
...well last week