Hey all, first post!
Basically 20years old, lost virginity at 17 sex was fine loved it cant get enough etc..
Now ive had a load of one night stands and dident like them, felt crap the next day. Much prefer to have sex in a relationship. Because of this ive been holding out for a decent girl (if there is such a thing)
Now ive not had sex for like a year and a half! which is killing me, but whenever im in a sexual situation i start to shake and i mean shake. first my legs start to shake then my whole body is going for it. Its like a trembling inside of me. This is extremely embarresing and makes getting laid hard lol
Last time it happend i was in a backpacking dorm kinda thing and was in a bunkbed above a girl. This girl started to masturbate and this is like one of my biggest fantasys...so of course i start shaking, i had to leave the room and totally missed out on any oppurtunity of joining her down there. when i left the room i went to bathroom and looked in mirror and i swear you would have thought i was having a fit or something, even my shoulders were shaking!
Ive talked to a close friend about this and he seems to think its stress, just wondered if anyone else has had something like this going on, or can anyone suggest
cheeers Jubei
[quote](if there is such a thing)[/quote]
Yes there is. There ALWAYS is.
Ab out the shakes. They are psychological and physical IMHO. Physical because you are holding a physical need with conscience, which can affect you negatively (should masturbate often to release tension). Psychological, because you are afraid to violate a self-imposed rule of celibacy, feeling dirty and stuff.
Relax. Sex is a physical need. Anything else people tell you is rubbish. If you have a (safe) chance to do it, just do it. You're not bad because of it. :)
And you know... you have to remember a rule someone teached me when I was 16: "there are many women you wish to sleep with, not many you wish to wake up next to."
Maybe you will find her in the OneNightStand, who knows?
Just don't go into a Casanova Syndrome rampage! :D LOL
good luck
Sounds as if the excitement is causing an adrenaline rush.
He's containing the need far too long here...