Heeeylo..im new to this forum ..but it looks like you all give good advice..which i really need ..
well iv been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we get on so well sex is amazing and i i turn him on easily ..but..i would really like to suprise him with something...i have never dressed up or anything because he says i look good in anything *wich doesnt help* :p i woundered if any women here do things for their guys that really get them going, or any men to give me advice on what guys love women to do ...:confused: plz help ...
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My ex dressed up in this dead sexy schoolgirl outfit. Seriously. I could barely keep my hands off her! Never underestimate how much a guy will go gaga over the pleated skirt with knee socks and a nice blouse and such. This doesn't have to be overly revealing like the ones you see in the adult shops ... it is still extremely sexy to make it more realistic. It is probably some subconsicous connection established from his schoolboy days.
We went out to eat and did a bunch of things and really I felt so special and empowered because I knew all the guys around were lusting after her and so very very jealous of me. :D
When we got back to her place, it was so funny, her mom (who is a total pervert btw) obviously knew what was up as we trotted off to the bedroom. Little did I know, the biggest surprise was yet to come! She had put that Victoria's Secret gift card I sent her to very good use, and I had never imagined that what was under that outfit was 10X hotter than the outfit itself! :eek: Yes, I made very sure she knew how much I appreciated and was turned on by her preparations.
Suffice it to say, I lived out one of my boyhood fantasies that day. It was a dream come true. Even though we have been broken up for almost 5 months now, I know that memory will light fires in my dreams until the day I die.
Well, if you're comfortable dressing up sexy and doing a bit of a strip tease, that's always very hot.
Another thing you could do is sit him in a chair and blind fold him, then slowly remove his clothing, tease the hell out of him, and make love to him while he's blind folded. Another variation on a theme here would be to tie his hands behind the chair, or tell him he can't touch you...so you have all the control the entire time--very hot!
Just a few options for ya. Have fun!
hehe i will note these down ..thank you for ur idea i will defenatly have ago..sounds like fun :D .. i can b very shy though which im abit wryd about because it stops me from being the kinky girl i know i am lol...:o ...but thank you any way hehe.... keep the suggestions kumming..the more the better ;)
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Here is a separate suggestion that my ex and I talked about but we never did. Maybe if you are a little 'kinky' then this could be fun:
Remote control vibrators: Yes, put one into yourself and the in public let him know and play with the remote a little, but make him beg you for it. He will be going crazy knowing what's going on. Eventually you might give it to him, and let him play as well. Regardless, once you are alone, he will be primed to take you and relieve all that sexual tension. :)
:D hehe thats awsome ..that story made me smile ...that also sounds like a very good idea ..woow y cnt my bf kum up with these ideas ...:p ... hah im liking these ideas keep em kuming ....i think its guna b hard choosing which one to pick is going to b hardest :p lol i feel like a kid in a candy shop...
and o urm lol...im abit insacure bout myself coz im 5ft haha tiny n i got lil chubby tummy *not fat* lol...but like ..does that not bother guys??.. i always get the impression girls in 'sexy undies' is only really sexy if uv got the body lol...
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and OMG the vibrator thing... AWSOME!!!! lol ..that would defenatly pu a smile on my face haha ...
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and o urm lol...im abit insacure bout myself coz im 5ft haha tiny n i got lil chubby tummy *not fat* lol...but like ..does that not bother guys??.. i always get the impression girls in 'sexy undies' is only really sexy if uv got the body lol...[/QUOTE]
A lot of women are insecure about their body image thanks to the media and such. I've read that women generally target clothing sizes that are 2 steps below what guys actually prefer.
A "little non-fat chubby tummy" will probably have no effect whatsoever. You're beautiful as you are. :)
(Of course there are many shallow guys who don't see any farther than her cup size, but ignore such boys, there are still quality men left in the world and hopefully yours is one of them. :) )
awwwwwwww thankies ..i will remember that hehe..n yer the media sux as far as im concernd lol i quite liek my squidgey tummy lmao ..
aww yer my guy dnt wnt me stik thin but u no us women lol always think they are lieing lmao!! xxxx
my girlfriend keeps telling me that she is fat...but she is NOT fat.
honestly, she's like 110 or something with C cup's. that cant be fat can it?
[QUOTE=champloo]my girlfriend keeps telling me that she is fat...but she is NOT fat.
honestly, she's like 110 or something with C cup's. that cant be fat can it?[/QUOTE]
I'd be more worried about her getting insufficient nutrition...
Seriously, next time you see some impossibly thin woman, point her out to your gf and say, "See that woman? I never want to see you get that thin. She's practically sickly, and you're just perfect the way you are. :) " As a side effect, you'll earn some "points" because most women looove compliments about their appearance. This way it comes off as more spontaneous, so she's more likely to take the compliment to heart. ;)
good idea, thx.
well hey, another thing is she is short, lol, like 5'1
next time i see my gf is tommorow, hopefully alex (my friend had his bar mitzvah today, party is tommorow) invited some impossibly skinny chick..;)
Well, I don't relly have extra money to spend on sexy clothes (unfortunately), but I told my boyfriend that I would wear anything that he buys me. Maybe ask him to pick up something that he would like to see you in... or go shopping together.
....lol...im the guy in the relationship....
alas, skinny chicks galore! but i forgot to mention it to her..
[QUOTE=lovebunny]Heeeylo..im new to this forum ..but it looks like you all give good advice..which i really need ..
well iv been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and we get on so well sex is amazing and i i turn him on easily ..but..i would really like to suprise him with something...i have never dressed up or anything because he says i look good in anything *wich doesnt help* :p i woundered if any women here do things for their guys that really get them going, or any men to give me advice on what guys love women to do ...:confused: plz help ...
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Alright, well me and my partener were talking about this, and she says she wants a PVC Nurse outfit, and wants me in a Firemans outfit, I think she'd look HOT! in a Nurse outfit, maybe try that out? Or something along them lines
Hope I helped
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sounds like your girl has a thing for firemen law..;)
[QUOTE=champloo]sounds like your girl has a thing for firemen law..;)[/QUOTE]
lol ye she has, she told me, and i think she'll look hot in that nurse outfit :p
thats why i suggest the orignal poster who posted their question to try it
Well...on the 'fat' issue...I am 5'9 with large everything. I wouldn't say I'm fat (no ripples or anything), but yes I could lose weight, However...losing twenty pounds would put me at ideal body weight for my size, height and family history. (I weigh about 180 pounds). No matter how fat I think I am, my BF supports me consistently, and I do realize that with my bone structure (big hips, big tits, solid bones) I will never weigh less than 160, and I will never ever be stick thin. I love me as me...so people who weigh 110 pounds need to worry far more about eating than losing weight. Weight is NOT an indicator of fat, since muscle also weighs more than fat does. A good portion of most women is muscle, covered with a layer of so-called "fat"....