my boyfriend and i have been together for a while, and now that we are closer in dinstance we are having sex more often. At first we had no problem getting one another to cum, but now its like he has problems ejaculating when we have sex, and he takes to long when I give him a blowjob or hand job. Is it that we are having sex to offten, or what else could be causing him problems. is there anything else that i can do to help him reach that point, he tells me that he comes close to cumming, but it just goes away.
Please help
He's having some issue that is preventing him from focusing upon the immediate events. Men are not machines. Time for you two to discuss what's bothering him.
I agree that the two of you should talk--and, at a time when the two of you are not planning on becoming intimate.
I just answered a similar post a few minutes ago. Here is a partial copy of that reply
Please read the information in the following Sticky posts:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
...and read the information in the following headings:
WAIT--HOLD ON--
Listen up-
...as well as the last four paragraphs.
The above info should help you out a lot. Feel free to ask more questions if and when you've got 'em.