Hi all..new here, just looking to see if this has happened to anyone...my internet seaches leave me nothing.
I was giving head to a guy and he experienced something quite amazing according to him. I was giving a combination of deepthroating and hand job and head stimulation, meanwhile he lost control and feeling in some fingers on each hand. numb, and couldnt move them. i can see how this can happen since nerves are all connected and i obviously hit something...just kind of crazy! i def thought I broke him, haha. maybe it was my position or something, but strange nonetheless! anyone have any good resources for this or how common this is?
It takes a lot of blood to keep that thing standing up. As orgasm approaches, it takes a little more because that is when the head engorges and turns purple.
The most likely issue is inadequate supply of blood which can be fixed by drinking sufficient water each day. The other possibility is that he has generally low blood pressure.
What is happening is that as the penis and related muscles require more blood, the body is diverting it from the periphery. The blood supply is still needed to the brain and so the fingers and toes are the first losers.
wow very interesting, thank you! so when more fingers and toes go i guess i should stop...haha.
yes this happens to me when I masturbate in the bath, the hotter the bath the more numbing etc. the reason being that with the hot bath water I too obviously am hot, when the body is hot the blood vessels dilatate to help dispel the heat, because the volume of the blood vessels increases the blood pressure goes down, also I do have low blood pressure and hence on approaching orgasm my fingers and toes go numb and I feel week,
Correct me if I'm wrong Brandye
[QUOTE=Newtolove;169440]yes this happens to me when I masturbate in the bath, the hotter the bath the more numbing etc. the reason being that with the hot bath water I too obviously am hot, when the body is hot the blood vessels dilatate to help dispel the heat, because the volume of the blood vessels increases the blood pressure goes down, also I do have low blood pressure and hence on approaching orgasm my fingers and toes go numb and I feel week,
Correct me if I'm wrong Brandye[/QUOTE]
When you cum do you try your hardest to get out of the bath before it touches you or gets in your hair? haha.
lol i do , nasty when it gets in ur pubes, impossible to get it out, bleh
*shudders* That is why I can't masturbate in the shower or bath. The way the cum feels after the water gets to it... *shudders again*
But you guys do not hesitate to leave us women with the mess!!
Hey now Brandye, I am a virgin. As of yet, all messes I made, I took care of myself...
[QUOTE=Brandye;170345]But you guys do not hesitate to leave us women with the mess!![/QUOTE]
That's right, what's your point?
If you want sex then you have to deal with it.
[QUOTE=Sirene;170400]That's right, what's your point?
If you want sex then you have to deal with it.[/QUOTE]
I must say you have some unique points of view I am sure you need it more than she does
[QUOTE=Brandye;170345]But you guys do not hesitate to leave us women with the mess!![/QUOTE]
Well my gal gets really wet and at my age I don't think I put out like I used to. So, the wet spot on the sheets is more a combination of the two. She just giggles & says "oh boy we made a bloody mess" with the British accent sort of thing. Wipe it up with a towel & consider it another job well done.