to tight to do it right!:(

[gorgeous<3]

im coming 17 and have had a few sexual partners and enjoy sex alot!, it has never really be this much of a problem but it has always caused complications, when trying to have sex it takes a while to get it in, and can sometimes be a bit if work!, its not like im a virgin or i dont know whats going on, its almost like it closes up!,it usualy gets better and much easy after like the 2nd time, but with my new partner it jsut takes ages to get in! and casuse so many complications and once its in were stuck with one position as im to tight for any other angle!, i love doggy(vaginal), but we tried it and was just a no go!, what can i do!?

[nuttychick]

After reading this and your other post. I suggest you take the time and Read
the articles in the "New to Sex" thread and then move on to other threads..
Then after all that you have questions that are not covered or clear come back and ask..

[dancingdoc2]

Please familiarize yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. If you click on the site's Home page you will find even more information.

As a place to begin with your insertion problem, please answer the following:
* How long to the two of you devote to fooling around and making out before getting to the Foreplay stage?
* How wet has your partner become at the time you want to begin intercourse?

If she is not very wet, then spend a half hour or more to Necking, Petting, and Heavy Petting activities--then go on to Foreplay, all before beginning intercourse.

Wet or not, spread lubricant all around the vaginal opening as well as your penis, tip to stern. You want to have a lot of slipperiness. Have some lubricant handy to add to what she is producing naturally, and to apply to yourself.

If all this is not working, then encourage her to take warm soaks in a bathtub over the course of several days and use her fingers to stretch the vaginal opening in all directions. This is detailed in one of the articles. She should insert a finger and tug against the opening holding the tension for several seconds before moving to the next quadrant. The warm water will help soften the tissue. There must not be any soap, shampoo, conditioner, or bubble bath in the water. After several days of exercising, there should be a noticeable difference. If not, then it is time for her to get checked out by her doctor.

[Brandye]

Nuttychick is spot on but let's get things in proper order. All women should have a complete gyn exam prior to becoming sexually active. If you have not had same, now is the time. This question is more readily answered when you are there to be looked at. This could be a positional thing or a lube thing. Or, simplt, inexperience on both parts.

With the lack of knowledge your two questions indicate, you have some learning to do.