how can i make my gf like her body?

[madmike]

Well, she has really got a gorgeous body nice boobs, flat tummy and a lovely bum! but she doesnt like her bum at all and doesnt like me touching it, even tho we have done anal.
Thanks, Mike
x

[CLVR-HNDS_GUY]

All i would say is tell her shes nice sexy and that sort of stuff, i had a ex gf who didnt like her body and after a while she started to like it with me saying it all the time, one thing did help one night was the news came on, there was a survey of mens tastes of curvy meduim build females. that did help alot once she heard that

[shychick07]

hmmm, you say you have done anal before? well maybe if she allows you to do anal again, while you're back there, compliment her butt. i dont really like my body; i used to hate my butt! but ive been told over and over how nice it is, and i have come to love it...but, yeah, if you get the chance to try anal again, just tell her how much you love it

[Tacitascott]

Communication is the best way.
I think you need to talk her and say her that she is always good and beautiful for you.
Her body shape doesn't matter for you.

[Brandye]

Every woman has hangups about some parts of her body. You are not going to change that; just be certain that you do not inadvertently reinforce her negatives.

[chrisInMs]

One trick, if she's willing is to put her in front of a full length mirror (ideally naked, but in her undies is great too) and point out everything on her body that you think is gorgeous.

I'm personally a huge fan of how a woman tastes. I love the taste of her arousal. If it was my girlfriend, I'd mention that... the key is STICK TO HONEST STATEMENTS. Don't lie and don't even stretch the truth here. There are times to stretch the truth to make her feel better, this ain't one of them.

I hope this helps. The attitude towards your GF you've mentioned is great.

[raunchy gal]

I've never really liked my butt,i'm curvy and an ex boyfriend used to call me "lard arse" he said it was a joke,but it wasn't to me.So guys don't say anything about your lady's assets if you don't mean what you say.My husband who i'm separated from recently said when i asked him what he first saw in me replied that he liked my "butt".Wish he had told me while we were still together because i don't think that i would have had such a complex about my body.He always wanted to do anal with me ,and i was not too keen.Now i know why he asked and if i knew that he idolised my "bum"i may have given him all of the anal he asked for.

[chrisInMs]

Originally Posted by Brandye

Every woman has hangups about some parts of her body. You are not going to change that; just be certain that you do not inadvertently reinforce her negatives.

In my experience, that's close to true, but not quite. Consistently and repeatedly comment on her favorably. Remember the least bit of reinforcement of the negatives will undo weeks of positive comments. The ******* media seems to have 1 standard of beauty and frankly, not a body-type that truly turns me on. It takes so much work to undo the damage that media BS does to her, but she deserves to feel good about herself.

[lnt1103]

Positive feedback can lessen the hang up, Chris, but you're not going to make it go away completely. Even if diminished, it will always exist to some extent in the back corner of the brain. I'd personally go beyond saying every woman has hang ups about some part of her body, to every PERSON has them. It's simply human nature. We're all our own worst critic.

[chrisInMs]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

Positive feedback can lessen the hang up, Chris, but you're not going to make it go away completely. Even if diminished, it will always exist to some extent in the back corner of the brain. I'd personally go beyond saying every woman has hang ups about some part of her body, to every PERSON has them. It's simply human nature. We're all our own worst critic.

I must agree.