My Vagina Is Not Sensitive and Its Rather Large

[MissCarmen]

I do have a child, my boyfriend says my vagina is bigger than other women he has been with and it is not a snug fit. He says he can get his fingers inside of me too easy and he know I don't like sex with him.

My vagina is not sensitive, I don't feel too many good feelings from penetration, this depresses me so and I don't know what I can do. My bf is very well endowed so I know its me its so embarrassing and depressing that I cannot enjoy sex like most women. He says most women he has been with would call him for sex, jump on him and moan like they are in ecstasy he says I just make noise because.

[Brandye]

All people lie about sex. Too often men do to make their current partner feel inferior. That is part of your problem.

".... I don't like sex with him." Then why in the world are you screwing him? If you do not like what you are doing, it is not going to be particularly enjoyable. In fact, it is going to be a chore. If you get no pleasure from penetration, the best approach is to stop allowing him to penetrate you.

For a bit of an anatomy lesson, your vagina does not feel a thing and neither do the rest of our vaginas. There are no nerve endings in a vagina or childbirth would be unbearable. Our feelings come from friction across our external genitals and the feeling of other internal parts being moved around a bit whilst having a penis in us.

Your being loose has little to do with your vagina and much to do with the muscle tone around the entrance. Do Kegels or at least keep your body in tone and these muscles will tighten up. Your boyfriend is NOT an authority on vaginal sizes; neither are you.

This threads show as much confusion and lack of knowledge and experience as the others you have started and they certainly do not hang together in any logical fashion. Read your threads and see if those you have started seem to be a bit disconnected and confusing.

Toting them all up, the only conclusion I can reach is that you have no business hanging around this jerk you found when you were twenty. Sexual happiness is not to be found in this relationship.

[nuttychick]

So this is the same guy from all your other threads?

If so I suggest you do Kegels and dump him (he sounds like a right wanker)

[MissCarmen]

I see Brandye yes I am confused. I was thinking well I can hold a tampon inside without any effort and things. Its not that I dont like having sex with him, but I feel like I am inadequate and not what he wants out of a sex partner he says he wants me to enjoy it but I like other aspects of sex but I do feel my muscle tone down there is poor because I tried to locate my pc muscle by stopping my urine flow and it was hard for me to stop it.